me and my boyfirend have been on a break now for one week caurse they needed to sort out family stuff two days i cryed for then after that all i have be felling is just sad and empty. does that mean i don't love him any more. am so confussed what to do .
2007-03-26 12:14:32 · 15 answers · asked by chazzybaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give him the space he needs. But dont put your life on hold either.Whether he has family stuff to do or not, it might have been nice of him to make some time for you. Talk to him and ask if hes missed you, make sure the relationship is healthy in that he has the same commitment to you as you do to him.
What ever...be happy!
2007-03-26 12:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by hollyb20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it was a decent reason why there has been a "break"--he's got family obligations. It's only been one week. Give him time. I do not know the nature of the family stuff, but if it merits a break, it's got to be pretty bad. The best you can do is offer your support and patience. That is part of what relationships are built on, not JUST on love or attraction.
And feeling empty and crying, I think it just means that you DO care. It's just an unpleasant situation, but it's not the end of the world.
Just give it time. One week is not that much. If by one month, there's no change, try talking to him nicely, saying "How have things been? Anything I can do to help? Want to just go out and see a funny movie to cheer you up?"
2007-03-26 14:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he is going through family stuff he still can call you out of consideration so you can know how he is doing ect, give him his space but continue to live your life its only been a week but that doesnt mean you have to sit around sad if another week goes by try to get in contact with him if he doesnt contact you first and ask him what is going on or where you stand with him, then take things from there....
2007-03-29 12:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, you're young, so refrain from committing yourself with what in most cases will be immature boys, just go out and have good times with groups of friends, and by all means if your fond of a particular boy give him a smack on the lips and a hug every now and then...
2007-03-26 12:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bound to be sad he's cut you out I understand he's family stuff but he shouldn't have cut you out your his girlfriend. To be honest I think you should wait for him to contact you and if he doesn't he isnt worth it. Guys are very different to girls they don't express their feelings as much. I still think its unacceptable behaviour though. There's something not right about the situation. Good luck.
2007-03-26 12:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by sugarplum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all slightly juvenile, isn't it? besides, he stated it replaced into over in an rather cowardly way. do not take him back and please, for the affection of god, have some self-appreciate and don't have intercourse with him lower back. He does not discover you exciting however if it particularly is an 'attempt' to be certain you.
2016-10-20 00:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend wanted a break and i was upset and felt that way becaue i know you dont go on a break for no reason
sure enough he dumped me 2 weeks later
2007-03-26 13:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by skidleypoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, its not so much as you don't love him, its more an acceptance thing, just talk to the guy and see how he feels. 'Many things are lost for the want of asking'
2007-03-26 13:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by George M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you concentrating now? 'cause your spellings abit off. Only you know if he's someone you really want to be with.
If he wants to be with you too, then fair enough.
Talk to him. Ask him how he feels.
2007-03-26 12:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, why did you have to take a break if he was just taking care of family stuff? that's kinda weird. more info, plz.
2007-03-26 12:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by blackanubis9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋