my bf and i were going out for a pretty long time and i actually ended up having my first kiss with him. after that, things got a little intense and i came to realize after a while that he only wanted to be with me to be physical and to touch me and stuff. for the first 2 weeks after i broke up with him, i was really insecure because knowing that that was the only reason a person said they "loved" me made me really self-conscience about a lot of things. how can i possibly go into another relationship without constantly worrying about this happening again? is my body the only good thing about me? wat am i supposed to think out of this? help me please!!!
2007-03-26 12:08:52 · 9 answers · asked by jgmice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
usually when a guy asks me out.. i ask them why they like me if their answer is good then that means its not for physical realtion.
2007-03-26 12:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Bugaboo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did not say how old you are but unfortunately that just how the world is today. I don't really know but it's like guys get a thrill out of this kind of behaviour without realizing or even caring about how it will hurt the other person. I am happy you realized what his true intentions were in time. There are alot of girls out there, like myself who were sleeping with them for a long time, only to just now realize that all he wanted was just sex. Keep your eyes open whenever you enter the next relationship. Try to stay out of "intimate settings". Don't go over to his place or allow him to come to yours when nobody is around. Stay in the public whenever you are together. Please allow time to take it's course before you become intimate. Abide by these rules and time is the only thing that will reveal whether he loves you or not.........let's face it, he can only hide his true self for so long. Be strong.
2007-03-26 12:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step back and watch a guy for a while before you consent to go out with him.Learn about him, his values morals )or lack thereof),does he work?pay his bills etc?Also dress modestly, like grandma.If you dress to seduce, then you are advertising yourself as something to be desired for sex, this is what gets his attention FIRST and the hoochier you dress the more likely youll end up with a guy who only sees what you advertise.He cannot see "you" only your body.Thats why I made the suggestions I made.
2007-03-26 12:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im really sorry. But dont be sad. Hes a loser if he only wants you for your body. Just forget about it and dont pay any attention to the man.
2007-03-26 12:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would dump the guy that you had and find someone else that you appreciate you for what you are and care about you.
2007-03-26 12:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should save your virginity for your wedding night, and you will never have this problem.
2007-03-26 12:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tom B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds good
got anything left
2007-03-26 12:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha thats hilarious
2007-03-26 12:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by Goosh T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys are jerks, you just try to find the nicest one!!!
2007-03-26 12:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥SummerRain♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋