my boyfriend dumped me two month ago from a two year relationship, last night i had a dream were he gave me a letter explaining that he wanted to get back, can anyone tell me why or what this means thank you
2007-03-26 12:08:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Most likely this is a wish dream. This is what you would like to see happen. That does not mean that it WILL or that it WON'T happen. Think about your current relationship to him and what the chances are that you will get back together.
Sarita
2007-03-26 12:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by saritadreaming 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex
To dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or that you and your ex got back together again, suggests that something or someone in your current life that is bringing out similar feelings you felt during the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behavior in a current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers often highlight the positive experiences you had with that person.�It could also signify aspects of yourself that you have x'd out or neglected.
To see your mate's ex in your dream, suggests that you may be comparing yourself to the ex. The dream is trying to tell you not to make the same relationship mistakes that ended that relationship.�
To dream that you are making out with your ex, signifies your acceptance of certain characteristics of your ex. The dream does not necessarily mean that you want to get back together with him or her. Consider what were the things you liked and disliked about him. These are the same qualities that you are finally acknowledging within your own self.
To dream that you ex� has died, indicates that your feelings for you ex are completely dead now. The dream is a metaphor of how you have let go of the past and are ready to move on and fully devote yourself to new relatonships.
Ex Boyfriend
To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
To dream that your ex-boyfriend is giving you advice about your current relationship, suggests that you unconscious is telling you not to repeat the same mistakes that you had made with this ex-boyfriend.�
To dream that you are being massaged by your ex-boyfriend, suggests that you need to let go of some of that defensiveness that you have been putting forth. You may have been putting up a wall or armor around you. You need to learn to trust people again.
To dream that you ex-boyfriend gives you a stuffed animal, suggests that you are seeking for reassuring and nurturing aspects of a relationship. This is not to imply that you want you ex-boyfriend back. Alternatively, the dream could represent some immature relationship which may (or may not) describe the relationship you had with your ex.
Letter
To dream that you receive a letter, signifies a new opportunity or challenge. Alternatively, the letter represents a message from your unconscious mind. The contents of the letter may offer you some guidance in a current situation. Consider also how the letter may be a pun on "let her".
2007-03-27 00:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because he dumped you and you desperately want him back so the subconscious works it out so that you get what you want. I would not rely to much on dreams. Perhaps it is time to cut your losses and move on, your young life is full of beautiful guys and lots more adventures, don't get stuck on this loser. If he dumped you, you are probably too good for him. You will probably have weird dreams for a while because this was a traumatic event for you. I hope everything goes well.
2007-03-26 19:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible it doesn't mean anything. You might have spent a second or two thinking about him that day, or heard his name, and it just stuck in your head. And the break-up is still relatively recent, maybe you are missing him and that manifested itself in your dream. And rarely, people will have dreams that are a premonition. If that's the case, and you do get a letter asking you to take him back, don't do it unless he has a good, believable explanation!
2007-03-26 19:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps there is a little misunderstanding in between you two.....n that needs to be resolved and there is something you should know...that he couldnt tell u earlier.....thats all i can predict from your dream...but dont worry there is something good in there for you....do what you can and you know is the best...
hope that would help...
good luck...!
2007-03-26 19:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by ~Angel Eyes~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a nightmare. Forget it and him.
2007-03-26 19:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not quite sure, but this website might help.
www.freakydreams.com
Hope I help.
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2007-03-26 21:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by cutiekiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means that u are watting for him to ask u back.
2007-03-26 19:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Alice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋