He already cheated on me once and i gave him a second chance. Im not sure if he is or not but he sure is treating me different like if he doesnt care for me anymore. Im not sure but i need help from someone i dont want to be used again.
2007-03-26 11:59:13 · 17 answers · asked by Marilyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im 14 incase anyone is wondering and he is younger than me by 3 months. I cant snoop on him because he lives 30 minutes away from me.
2007-03-26 12:06:26 · update #1
Let go let flow let love. I mean you know with in yourself women's intuition right? Just do not become bitter and think that every guy is the same and learn from your mistakes. Ask him after time goes by, why did you cheat on me. Everyone is not for everybody. Yeah you will be bummed, but with time comes healing. Let time be your friend and fix your problems. Time does a better job than most humans do at fixing things.
2007-03-26 12:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this the wrong way. Once they cheat the thought will always be in the back of your mind. (Is he cheating on me again?) I have been there....even tried the second chance. Always ended up with a trusted issue. Face it if they lie to once....they will do it again. Men are kind of like kids they will push just to see how far they can push you. But let me tell you this. If you feel like he is cheating on you then he more than likely is. If you have to have the proof...follow him in a friends car. Ask around about him. But don't be crushed when you go digging and get the answer that you Did not want. Some women like being blind....empower yourself sister.....Good Luck!
2007-03-26 12:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by cheyenne29646 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can make you do stupid things! You should have never took him back, but in love I SEE WHY YOU DID! Let's back track. He treats you like he didn't need that second chance then let him know that at the end of the day, your going to be looking out for you come the next **** up! But realistically catch him or set him up with a hot chick to see if he'll far for her! If he does then he was never in love with you the way you thought.
2007-03-26 12:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by mahoganay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is treating you like he doesn't care than he doesn't deserve you weather he's cheating or not.
Given that he has cheated on you in the past and he is still treating you like this, just let him go.
Nobody deserves to be treated bad in a relationship. That should be your soft place to fall. Anything else is unacceptable.
If you let him go you will be able to move on yourself and find someone worthy of the good person you are.
Good Luck!
2007-03-26 12:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weelll I would check his phone maybe snoop around. If he has already cheated once he will most liekly do it again. It also depends on how long u ahve been together and ur age.... It def. sounds like somehting is not right
2007-03-26 12:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys cheat because they know they can do better, if you be weak then then treat you as weak , and you become gullable, simple, usually the girls who stay wiht their man when he cheats are usually insecure and most luckily unattractive, i know girls who control men, because they know they can get any man they want, they are slim, tall, light, pretty, them girls never get cheated, your man DONT want ya, accept and live life, ue becumig, weak gullable and pathetic, ur man probaly dont respect ya cuz noway wud he ever have cheated in the first place, you make it treat u the way he does, ive never been cheated anyting like that before, bu ive seen it, and i noticed pretty girls never get cheated, guys respect them, thats a FACT!. c ya.lol.
2007-03-26 12:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is cheating on you, you have shown him that you are willing to be a doormat. He is just treating you the way you want.
Just move on, it's not really that hard to do. Your real problem is you like being treated bad....why?
2007-03-26 12:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD NEVER TAKE SOMEONE BACK ONCE THEY CHEAT CAUSE THEY LOOSE REASPECT FOR YOU AND TRUST THEY WILL DO IT AGAIN, IF YOU THINK HE IS CHEATING HE PROBRABLY IS..DO YOU REALY WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU KNOW HAS ALREADY cheated on you and think bout it all the time if ge is or not...loose him....your are 2 good 4 that!!!!
2007-03-26 12:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know, I believe everyone deserves a second chance. People make mistakes, sometimes the biggest one's of their lives. The thing is if he learned from it. Act disinterested with him and see what happens.
2007-03-26 12:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already cheated on you and you don't even trust him enough to know that he has changed, I don't think your relationship should go on. I think you should dump him.
2007-03-26 12:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by catchthesnitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋