She probably didn't mean it in a bad way but I was hurt by what she said. Should I let her know that I don't like being teased? I am a guy. I've never teased anyone except my closest friends and I always let them know I'm not serious.
(Oh and she wasn't flirting or anything like that. We're acquaintances)
2007-03-26 11:57:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yeah you should let her know! Don't be rude about it or anything just tell her, " Hey, I know you probably didn't mean for it to happen but what you said really hurt my feelings" If she's any kind of a friend she'll understand and it won't happen again.
P.S. you may want to pull her off to the side and tell her it may go over better
2007-03-26 12:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure? because sometimes even if you are acquaintances, girls tend to flirt by making fun of the ppl they like, esp from the ages of infancy up till 16 or 17. after that, they get more forward and complicated.
but if not, i think you should definitely let her know that you were put off by it. don't be mean about it, tho, or else all the friends in between you might have to choose who they'd rather hang out with.
2007-03-26 19:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Chris C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with letting her know she hit a nerve. If she did not mean it in a bad way then she will probably be sorry for hurting your feelings.
On the other hand, if she did say it to be mean... well then don't talk to the horrid creature again.
2007-03-26 22:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should inform her that you don't like being teased. If you don't like something, make sure you tell the person so you don't have to put up with it.
2007-03-26 19:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to kill all the fun in the room is for someone to say, "Pardon me, but I don't prefer to be teased."
Jump onto the life train and don't take yourself so damn seriously...
2007-03-26 19:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you going to take that? stand up for yourself! have you ever heard the phrase, stand for something, or you'll fall for everything, when people harass you, do something about it! don't just sit there and take it! when a beast bites you, bit it back.
2007-03-26 19:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it bothered you that much you should have told her on the spot. I wouldn't bring it up again but if she does it again give her a peice of your mind.
2007-03-26 19:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by experiMENTAL bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on a sheet of paper write
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and tell her to read it aloud
2007-03-26 19:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by booyah™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, let her know that it bothered you, otherwise she may insult you again unknowingly
2007-03-26 19:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just grow some thicker skin. If you tell her she might be worse.
2007-03-26 19:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋