I need advice on a "friend" of mine????

Question

ok! i have this neighbour who i dont like at alll! and i have 2 be her friend! but i dont want 2!!!! and i just want 2 tell her in a way that we dont have a fight! but i dont know what 2 do! can u give me sum advice! i relly need help! and if i just come up 2 her and tell her that i dont want 2 be her friend she'd go tell her mom and it would become a fight! i really need help!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

There is probably no way you can tell her this without hurting her feelings, and that might start a fight. But, if I were you, I would probably wait for her to approach me, look away, and say, "I don't want to talk to you right now." Keep doing this every time she comes up to you, and don't say anything else, just repeat that. Sooner or later, she'll get the hint.

Answer 2

Simply just ignore her...not in a rude way...but pretend that your really boring for awhile when she is around..THEN if she asks if you want to go do something make up an excuse like "you not feeling good" or you are tired or you have to do major homework/project...soon enough she will simply get the message...


remember to aways stay kind....

Answer 3

go deeper and try to find out what is it about her that you don't like. if you don't like her because of her behavior, then ask her to change it. if that little thing gets her to tell her mama, then she's a b-a-b-y. if you don't like her cause of her race or cause she's mentally retarded, YOU should go and get a grip. you should not be so mean at things she cannot change.

if she can change it, then tell her(even help her) to change. if she tells her m-o-m-m-y, then tell her she ain't got no friends no more. sometimes you have got to fight to get what you want. not aways scared of fighting. of course, fighting physically is not good. as you know, violence is not the way to solve a problem. but verbally is the way to go to get what you want.

Answer 4

We're all forced to sometimes associate ourselves with people we really don't like. If the reason you can't say this nicely to her yourself is because both of your parents are friends, try talking nicely to your mom about it. If your mom doesn't understand, try and find ways to distance yourself from her. For example, frequently make yourself unavailable. This means going places, having homework, etc...she'll get the picture eventually.

Answer 5

Don't tell her that you don't want to be her friend, because that can really hurt her feelings. Just try to tell her that ...maybe you have a busy schedule, and you can't always hang out with her..or maybe ..talk to her once in a while and be nice, try to be acquaintances instead of friends.

Answer 6

first of all, you should tell her what you think. if she starts arguing, then dont say anything. you should tell her that shes not kind to you and isnt acting like neighbor. Just dont be bold and stuck up with it

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I have the same problem but this is what I did.

Tell her that she is kind of bothering you and you need a little space. JUST TELL HER GENTLY!!

Answer 9

well there r two choices one try to get to know her or try to go up to her and talk to her and tell her that u dont want to be friends with her or try to see wat u dont like about her and try fixing it and maybe yall will be friends but if ur gonna tell her try sayin it where it wont hurt her feelings

Answer 10

Avoid her, let her down, make excuses and don't stay around to explain, get your mother to make excuses. If you piss her off, she wont want to be your friend and you don't have to tel her anything!