we're dating 5months - got serious - and he decides to break up cause he had someone else on him minD- I said cool - and 2 weeks later I decided to date someone else i was interested in - he calls me, and starts calling me names, and when i said I loved him, says he does not... I ended that, and started talkin 2 him again, and he gets all shallow and sayin stuff again.... So i leave!!
he shifted countries for his job - calls me a few days later - He's met someone who he's been in love with for 4yrs and He is sorry abt the way i feel for him......
2 months later - gets back with me - 15 days later - gets to to tell him my deepest secret and then decides that I cant be with him cause of this - So i leave...
He flies back to country - 3 months later
begs for us to meet up - I dodged him the 15 days he was in town, and said NO!! not happening - However I wished him on his birthday.... He did not bother on mine!!
2007-03-26 11:55:00 · 10 answers · asked by Tweety 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
contacted my ex after 3 months - after this
i decided to just say hi online -
1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with a new women - Not the one he was in love with Last year - I gave it back to him, I gave him a piece of my mind - cause he put me through all this....
however I just don't know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??
he was so rude,
My question is - I am feeling lost, and like i may never want another one of these things again - cause its devastating - however, I do need to move on - he's been playing with my feelings for 6 months - What do i do? whats your advice and opinions? help please - advice please..
2007-03-26 11:55:12 · update #1
Forget the twit and find someone who does not fall in and out of love everytime the weather changes. . .
2007-03-26 12:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Walking Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say it but you are guilty of taking him back too many times. After the first drop, you should have left him alone. The 2nd could have been forgivable but all you became was a doormat. I would have said you didn't deserve it if you didn't take him back. That's where you messed up and all he is doing is taking advantage as any opportunist would do. Easy tap. You may now keep him at a distance but you haven't cut him off so you will continue to get burnt until you make him disappear.
2007-03-26 12:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Rothwyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it fairly is far too lots worry for a short-term dating (purely 5/6 months!). decrease the extreme drama, that may no longer love. by no capacity talk with this individual lower back and are not getting in yet another dating that has drama. Love and relationships are for convenience and popularity; if no longer, save moving. in case you keep ending up in a number of those relationships, then look to your self for the priority. sturdy success.
2016-12-08 11:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay already, heres the deal.
I heard Dr. Phil say this and I am not a huge fan of his but this makes sense.
"I would rather be emotionally healthy alone than sick w/someone else".
You do what you want but understand that you may turn around twice and 20 years has gotten away and your alone.
2007-03-26 12:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say u need to quit giving him chance after chance and find someone who loves u and respects u and dosen't call u names
2007-03-26 12:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to square #2
Find someone else to date.
Change your phone number, address, whatever it takes, to keep him from contacting you.
He really has a problem.
Go on with your life for pete's sake!
Life is short!
2007-03-26 12:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are confused. guys like this aren't worth it. he is making you miserable, while someone else who is sexy and sweet, and has a good personality, could be loving you endlessly, giving you everything you want in a relationship, and making you truly happy. i say move on and find him. you will be happier and that guy can grow up.
2007-03-26 12:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all....BE DONE WITH HIM. He sounds very young or at best, self absorbed.
Make sure your next boyfriend is an adult.
2007-03-26 11:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. he has been rude and dis respectful to you.
yes move on but take it slow for awhile.
don't be afraid to fall for some one else.
2007-03-26 12:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON "! YOU DON'T NEED THIS
2007-03-26 12:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by tiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋