we're dating 5months - got serious - and he decides to break up cause he had someone else on him minD- I said cool - and 2 weeks later I decided to date someone else i was interested in - he calls me, and starts calling me names, and when i said I loved him, says he does not... I ended that, and started talkin 2 him again, and he gets all shallow and sayin stuff again.... So i leave!!
he shifted countries for his job - calls me a few days later - He's met someone who he's been in love with for 4yrs and He is sorry abt the way i feel for him......
2 months later - gets back with me - 15 days later - gets to to tell him my deepest secret and then decides that I cant be with him cause of this - So i leave...
He flies back to country - 3 months later
begs for us to meet up - I dodged him the 15 days he was in town, and said NO!! not happening - However I wished him on his birthday.... He did not bother on mine!!
2007-03-26 11:54:07 · 8 answers · asked by Tweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
contacted my ex after 3 months - after this
i decided to just say hi online -
1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with a new women - Not the one he was in love with Last year - I gave it back to him, I gave him a piece of my mind - cause he put me through all this....
however I just don't know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??
he was so rude,
My question is - I am feeling lost, and like i may never want another one of these things again - cause its devastating - however, I do need to move on - he's been playing with my feelings for 6 months - What do i do? whats your advice and opinions? help please - advice please..
2007-03-26 11:57:29 · update #1
You talk at first like you let him go after he broke up and moved on. What happened and why was he calling YOU names? Something is missing here. Do something for you like have a pedicure or go to movies or go to a good Christian non-denominational Church. Doing something is better than moping after a wierdo cause he doesn't seem to be stable at all. Stay away from him if all he can do is hurt your life.....
2007-03-26 12:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either one of those controlling types(and you wouldn't really know until it was too late, trust me on this), or maybe he is bi-polar. Cause he sure sounds like it. Which's sad, bc that's not the way he should be, but either way it sounds like this has been going on for some time. There are stable men out there, so why don't you go find one. It might seem a little stale at first, but once you get used to him being normal all the time, you'll wish you'd done it sooner.
2007-03-26 12:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by blackanubis9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start investing the time you used for him, in yourself. Join a club/gym. Develop a new hobby. Throw yourself into it. Start loving you, and in turn you'll meet someone who starts to feel the same. You deserve only the best, never settle for less. Good Luck to you, you can do this. We've all been there.
2007-03-26 12:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offense, and I didn't read all of that, but you are a little crazy.
You can get better, but first you have to move on. The Past has passed. Learn from your mistakes and move on. You're just beating that poor, dead horse over and over. Leave him alone.
2007-03-26 12:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gotta be playing games get someone who wants to be with you not just part time ya know what iam sayin
2007-03-26 12:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you realize that he has been playing mind games. At this point, I suspect abuse too. You don't need this guy in your life. Good luck.
2007-03-26 12:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jan C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good grief.....re-read your question out loud to yourself and I think you can rescue yourself! Why would you allow someone to treat you like that?
2007-03-26 12:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please please read this book:
http://www.amazon.com/Men-Hate-Women-Love-Them/dp/0553381415/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-0223057-1152700?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1174950437&sr=8-1
It will help you.
Peace & Love.
2007-03-26 12:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by Chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋