Ok I don't have that many friends who are girls. I don't have a girlfriend either. And often when I happen to get to talk a girl and build up friendship as I would with any other guy, I am always thinking.. if she is the one. I mean I can't have a friendship without thinking "if she is the one" in particular if she is attractive?
am I being sexist or lustfull or what..how should I go about it?
2007-03-26 11:51:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No I don't have any desire to be friends with girls. I actually don't have many friends I am more of "by myself" kind of guy
2007-03-26 12:07:02 · update #1
I meant, I don't have a strong unnormal urge to be friends with girls....I don't know it is again twisted. I just want to be friends with anyone, and specially with girls without always thinking about "if she is the one"
2007-03-26 12:08:03 · update #2
Treat girls like any regular person. I mean, it's just the opposite sex. Except, be more sensitive around them about their looks and their abilities. Oh, and if you're straight, those urges are perfectly normal... Just... don't hope for much at first.
2007-03-26 12:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seem to have a similar "problem." I find it hard to get close to girls in general especially without thinking "girlfriend." I think its best to have a group of friends some of which are boys and some of which are girls so you are always in a group when you hangout and these thoughts might not come into your head.
Do you actually have a strong desire to be friends with girls?
2007-03-26 19:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just treat them like you would treat your guy friend just mabey a little less violent. If something happens it happens
2007-03-26 18:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by TheJesterTwist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you actually want a girlfriend but you would like to know them more before you just get your tongue into her mouth.
2007-03-26 18:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋