I'm still not sure about the situation, but umm do you think I should fly out to see my friend this year eventhough she has a boyfriend now? I'm just a bit confused about the situation. I do want to go, but I now have that weird feeling like yeah I can hang out with her, but I know she has a boyfriend, so i might feeol left out or something. I don't know... :( Tell me what you guys think..
2007-03-26 11:49:25 · 7 answers · asked by Rob 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are just friends & her boyfriend knows about you & doesn't mind you visiting then you should go.
You should talk to her before you go though to make sure she has plans for things to do so you'll know if you're going to be left out before you go.
2007-03-26 11:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused about lots of things.
Yeah, go see her. U can be just friends, right? Unless u want more. In that case don't go to see her. Why watch the woman of your dreams floating aroung happily with the jerk she's with now?
2007-03-26 18:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do have a point but if you guys are really friends then you wont be left out. and if you like her or even love her then dont go because that might ruin their relationship. if you like her in that way then what would you do in her point of view
2007-03-26 18:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should still fly out.If she starts ignoring you then tell her what she has been doing and if she says back off or something then just fly back.
2007-03-26 18:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by johnbieder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know it's gonna make you uncomfortable why are you doing it. I think you can remain friendly with her if you still want her in your life but it you don't think you gonna have a wonderful time. Why waste your money?
2007-03-26 18:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes a true friend she will definitely make the time to spend time with you. Especially since you flew far just to see her.Everything will be fine..don't worry.
2007-03-26 18:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by shellygrrlrox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go, but only make out with her when her boyfriend isn't around.
Unless you can take him.
2007-03-26 18:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋