i'm still a virgin is that a bad thing?

Question

most of the kids in the class are not virgins and it seams like i am the only kid in my class that is a virgin

Answer 1

YES it is very bad. Bad girl, go to my room and wait there for me and your punishment.

Answer 2

I'm a virgin too! Man, I think I am the last one of my girl group well maybe theres 2 of us not so sure. When we were little we all promised we weren't going to give it up to some loser and some of us did lol. One actually did it with a couple of guys and a couple of girls. She was finding herself and she actually found she was gay. So, once less. Then the other just lost it to like the whole class and got pregnant in high school and drama mama all the way. So then there was 3. Well one of my closest friend, we just graduated 2-3 years ago and she hooked up with a classmate from high school and I found out a couple months ago that she sealed the deal to. Which was like wooah because she said she was going to hold out for a couple of years or at least a few months but nope "it happened" she said so there goes that one. Well so it's just 2 of us left. She's a friend but isn't a friend with the others. She's also a country girl, and very proper, bible study girl so we have had conversations about it but she has never said clearly that she is STILL a virgin. I am though and I am 20 yrs old. It hasn't happened because I haven't found the right guy. I have had a lot of guys just come out and say you wanna "F" and if i wanted to and was desperate well there you go but I'm not and there's so much going on with College, Work and my businessess that its not even an issue yet. When it does happen, I'll be careful, use condoms, pills if i have to and get tested before doing the boom boom as my friend says. Its cool and you go do your thing go to college and then one day you'll meet mr. right and if you feel its the right person and right time then you'll make the right decision. You should be in a good relationship that has lasted a good amount of time before just giving it up. Remember most just want to get into your pants.

Answer 3

I think it is wonderful that you are still a virgin. Too many people just don't seem to care about themselves enough anymore and just "do it" because it is what all the "cool" people do.

Well, you don't have to go down that road to be cool. If it is truly what you want, go for it, but don't be in a hurry. I was actually in my early 20's before I went there, and still felt it was too soon in the big scheme of things.

Just remember sex is not the only thing out there. There is so much more to life! Enjoy your childhood and be a kid. There will be plenty of time for other things later.

IF you do decide to do it, be sure you play it safe though. Always use protection. Birth control is not enough.

Good luck and do what feels right to you.

Answer 4

there is nothing wrong at all for you to still be a virgin. Actually your doing the right thing. Think about it. when you get married wont you be comfortable in knowing your husband is the only one who has slept with you has had that intimate moment. I wish that i would have waited to have sex until i was married. i was the only person my husband has ever slept with and that makes me feel special but he's not the only one i've been with and it hurts cause i could have gave him that and i didnt. There is so much diseses out there and you are doing the right thing in waiting. your very smart and i admire you. dont worry about what everyone else does you know most of those people are probably just lying any how. they probably want to sound cool by saying they slept around but in all honesty it only makes them sound like sluts and whoes. so dont follow in that path do whats right for you and only you whe you get older you will be glad you waited.

Answer 5

That is not a bad thing, be proud of being a virgin. Stay a virgin until you get married, you truly honor the man you choose to take it, chose wisely. It is a precious gift you have. I'll bet most of the kids wish they hadn't done it yet and envy you.

Answer 6

Keep up the great work and please don't go listening to the pressure of giving in to this "having sex thing cuz everyone doing it" Stay true to you and if people press the question just change the topic and avoid the answer it's totally not there business to know about you personal life! STAY A VIRGIN UNTILL YOUR GROWN UP INTO BEING A YOUNG WOMAN...you know going to college (age) or even waiting for marriage!!! Be You!!! An Original!!!

Answer 7

People are known to stretch the truth to make themselves seem "better", so chances are good they're lying. Losing your virginity (while it is an important rite of passage in life) does not automatically make you "cool". When you have the right person and when YOU are ready, then it's your time. Losing it on your OWN terms is so much sweeter and memorable than just doing it for the sake of peer pressure.

Screw everyone else (...and not in the way they'd like *wink*)

Answer 8

Thats a good thing honey. Im 19 and still a virgin. I go to college and from what Ive heard, Im the only one in my class. Im so proud.

Answer 9

being a virgin and standing by something you believe in is a very good thing for one thing you will not have to worry about an unwanted pregenice or worse yet it will be impossible for you to come down with one of the many sexual transmited diseas HIV being one of them. Do not worry about what your friends think. I know that at your age you tend to think a lot of what your frineds think but one day when you meet your husband and get married you will be glad that you waited

Answer 10

You have standards and they don't and you think you're in the wrong? If it helps, probably more than a few are lying, so that evens the odds a bit. Sex is supposed to feel good. If you're not ready for it, it won't feel good, so what's the point of doing it? Just to impress a bunch of kids who don't seem to put any value on it anyway?

Answer 11

Being a virgin definately isn't a bad thing. Just because a lot of people you know aren't doesn't mean you have to lose your virginity just to fit in! =]