WARNING- the question you are about to read will sound insane, but try to understand, plzzzz?
the whole story will take days to explain, so im just going to talk about today...
today i ran from a certain person for an hour straight...
this person doesnt know when to stop...
i do not like this person, but this person thinks im theyre best friend, and always wants to be around me. (at any cost!!!)
i want some "alone time", (and today, i had to hide in a church to get some)(no disrespect, i had a good talk with the Big Man while in there)
this person is smothering me, and preventing me from having any fun with my real friends... i want to this peron to just leave me alone, but this person is very sensitive, and will burst into tears and i dont think i can take that...
what do i doooooo?????
2007-03-26 10:27:57 · 4 answers · asked by M T 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
uuummmmm... that gross. its not a guy!
2007-03-26 11:52:52 · update #1
So what if they cry??? Big deal. They aren't respect your boundaries and don't care how you feel. You face the person and tell them...look I need some space and alone time. I'll call you when I'm feeling more friendly.
You have to learn to face people and ask for what you want. If you don't you will be running from something all of your life. So, get up and either call the person before it happens again, or approach them first and get it off of your chest. You can say anything to anyone if you say it sincerely and keep your cool. If they choose to be "hurt", that's their problem. If you don't speak up, you're allowing that person to have total control over you and your feelings. Speak up!!! Godloveya.
2007-03-26 10:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a group that will only allow one more person on there team that meets M-F. Then tell that person you are busy with you your new group. Then after that person is not around ditch the new group or team if you don;t like it and go on your marry way. You could even volenteer some where. Craigslist.org will have a list of groups in your town to join. A kick ball team or something
2007-03-26 17:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by ashlandtree 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
somebodys gonna ahve to take the pain, might as well tell him to give u soem space
2007-03-26 17:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
flash ur titts at him. hell like it and hell want more. tell him ull only give him more if he leaves u alone.
2007-03-26 17:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by bhagwaan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋