we were engaged i went away to rehab and came home and he had been cheating and now shes preganant they arent together anymore and we work together and i miss him and he acts like he doesnt care...help!!!
2007-03-26 10:27:31 · 11 answers · asked by Brittanylr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
girlfriend leave him alone he is a cheater and no good for u or her he has left her too. he is not the one for you. work on getting your life together. u r missing him becuz he has moved on. we always want what we think we can't have. good luck!
2007-03-26 10:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by mschesskey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you figure out how to MAKE someone love you, please write a book.
You went to Rehab - I hope you learned that things don't always go the way we hope and that you just have to accept what cannot be changed. This is one of those times. Leave it be. He has created a mess in his life by getting a girl pregnant. You, as a newly discharged recovered addict do not need chaos in your life. Attend your 12 step meetings, talk to your sponsor, and do your reading.
YOU CANNOT CONTROL THOSE AROUND YOU - only yourself. Let this guy go.
2007-03-26 17:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cant love you on his own then he doesnt deserve to be with you. You are probably a great women so just go get you someone else. Dont be stuck on this cheating man that cant treat you right. Go get you someone that will treat you like the queen you are. NEVER settle for less than you deserve honey..NEVER!!
2007-03-26 17:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't really make anyone love you. If you've tried reminding them of why you two were together in the first place and that has had no effect, then I'm afraid you should begin looking elsewhere. It sounds like he has.
2007-03-26 17:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had an exgf ,we broke up ,months later i talked to her online and u can say some of the old feelings awaked for a second,so i spilled the beans,she said literally wishful thinking,,,ha ha lol,dead roads r always dead sweetheart ,dont bother yourself,u sound passionate but he aint
2007-03-26 17:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not acting. He just don't care. If you seem desperate, he will someday use you in his advantage. Or if you really want him back, tell him that you want him back. And if he takes you back "good", if not move on.
2007-03-26 17:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. All you can do is be yourself and true to yourself. Treat him as you would like to be treated and if he doesn't treat you well...honey move on...
2007-03-26 18:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated he got her pregnant move on
2007-03-26 17:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately u have lots of baggage that may be more than he can handle...one cannot make someone one u...
2007-03-26 17:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you dont.
if shes with someone else...let it be..and let it go..
somethings just arnt meant to happen ....sorry
2007-03-26 17:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by lisa baby... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋