2007-03-26 10:21:08 · 28 answers · asked by Jim W 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
check into a mental insitution because i would never be the same again
2007-03-26 10:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jahpson 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First I would suggest letting it all out, don't keep it buried inside. Talk to someone which won't be easy because you probably lost your best friend (your wife). If you have to, call a crisis center because they will listen & they will talk to you. Find things to do, going to the movies (alone is ok) is good because it takes your mind off of things, especially comedies. I would also try church, if you're not religious there's not better time to start. Not everyone there are these great people but there a lot of good people there that do the best they can & basically that's what you need right now. Good luck!
2007-03-26 17:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by CrazyEddy06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, that's so sad. I suppose the only thing you could do is try to remember all the wonderful memories you had with them, and be thankful for the time you had with them. I know that's much easier said than done...honestly....I think I would just die of a broken heart. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry!!! You're family is looking down on you from the heavens, they would want you to try to be happy in your life.
2007-03-26 17:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Nidda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the same thing happened to me but luckly my husband had told me that if he ever died that he wanted me to move on in my life and date other men until I find another man I loved. That is what I did and I am married again and have two children. Take a break for a couple weeks but then go back in to the dating world. there is someone else out their.
I am very heart-broken....I am soo sorry
2007-03-26 17:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you mourn their loss appropriately and take time for yourself. This is a horrible tragedy and I am so sorry to hear that, but like I said, take time for yourself. Then resolve to honor their memory by carrying on your life and working for the benefit of others. It may seem impossible now but you can go on. You have to go on. I'll be thinking about you and hoping you are okay. Don't withdraw from life - but do take time for yourself. Try and reach out to a hospice in your area and see if there is a bereavement support group you could attend. You may be able to learn of one from a local church or hospital. It is terribly important that you stay in touch with a couple of people - maybe a friend or coworker or family member. Don't withdraw to think about these things over and over - reach out and let someone know you have experienced this terrible loss and let them help you stay connected - maybe take you to a bereavement support group or something like that. Even non-tragic death is difficult to handle. There is a lot of trauma associated with this and I would advise you strongly to not try and handle this all by yourself. Look for help today and don't get drunk. Don't abuse pills or narcotics of any kind. And, most important, don't try and do this by yourself. Reach out and continue to reach out for help. E-mail me directly at any time.
2007-03-26 17:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by shrill alarmist, I'm sure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is such a terrible loss. You know, we don't understand the reasons why things happen. Everything does happen for a reason. We have to except our loss and go on with our lives. Your wife would want that. It isn't going to be easy, but you can do it. You don't have to forget your memories though. That is what you have now....is the memories. Good luck and God Bless You.
2007-03-26 17:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by little Glo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends, did you care for your wife and children, or did you set the fire?
2007-03-26 17:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a very big loss.my hart goes out to you.Maby you should seek a group with people dealing with the same kind of trauma you have exp. and get help finding coping skills.Try not to isolate.
2007-03-26 17:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be devestated, but dont turn into an old fogie which regreats not dying with them. Try to get one with you life, even though it will be difficult but you cant just not live.
2007-03-26 17:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sabre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that would be really hard to deal with but i would turn to my friends to be there for me and maybe get some couseling and if you ever feel depressed get medication i know that sounds dumb but something like that could put you into depression and untreated depression could lead to suicide but i hope your life gets better and that everything turns out im sorry for your loss
2007-03-26 17:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by lulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to a new house and start over
2007-03-26 17:24:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋