my sister is getting on my nerves and she acts like she can run my life and tell me what to do.she dosent like to share but when she ask me to share with her i have to because i dont want to be mean. she also snitches,but all those secrets she told me not to tell mom are still locked up in in my mouth, and i cant say a word because IM NOT A SNITCH.errrr! what should i do ?
sister=18
me=13
2007-03-26 10:17:56 · 10 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The way I see it is that you are acting like an 18 years old and your sister is acting like a 13 years old. The qualities that you have described about yourself like not wanting to be mean and not liking to snitch are things you want to keep having because in the long run they will benefit you. Your sister is just being inmature by taking advantage of are age but this sitution tends to level out in the long run. Right now 13 versus 18 seems like a big gap but try to picture yoursef when you will be be 28 and your sister will be 32. At that time the difference in ages negligeable and both will be mature women. The difference will be that you will have had plenty of experience in being a loving, reliable and decent person and perhaps your sister will learn from you. Good luck.
2007-03-26 10:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Spookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with my brother. I'm always there whenever he ask me for money. But when I ask him for money, it's a different story. Whenever he has secrets, I don't snitch and tell mom but he is a snitch.
All I can say is Family is family whether they get on your nerves or not. Most of the time it's really good to have my brother because he fights with all of guys that mess with me.
2007-03-26 10:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny cause I went through this when I was your age with my sister. Just dont let it bother you, you should have your own life and she should have hers. She will realize when you are both older how terrible she treated you and you will have a better relationship later in life. Just try not to resent her later on for the way she treated you because allot of siblings dont get along and its just a part of being a teenager and being young..
2007-03-26 10:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 12:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by benavidez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a lot of sisters go through this problem. the best thing to do is tell your sister and let it out and if you dont have the nerve too then tell your friends or another family member.
hope it works out!
2007-03-26 10:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by lovebug3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, why not start writing all of those secrets down where she can't find it...on the computer somewhere...and use it to blackmail her. Send her a few excerps via email and tell her you have it all and you'll use it if she doesn't back off!!! Tell her you learned those tricks from HER !! "oh Mom..have you checked your email today?"....Godloveya.
2007-03-26 10:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between being mean and protecting your privacy. You don't have to share with your sister.
2007-03-26 10:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't bother you...you LET them bother you.
Remember, you sis is at this game a little longer than you. Think of how to deflect, not absorb the "hits"...
Good Luck
; )
2007-03-26 10:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
payback time tell some of her secrets
vengence shall be yours
2007-03-26 10:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so nice .... shes using you and she thinks she can get away with it becuase your younger ... if you dont stop her now , it will never change
2007-03-26 10:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋