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..have what it takes to get married in the future?

2007-03-26 10:11:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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It's a nice thought, but that's all it is. Have fun and don't take it so seriously. You'll both discover who you really are over the next 5 or 10 years. During that time, you'll realize that you are really compatible, or not. In the meantime, play the field and explore life. There are so many fish in the sea and you've got a whole world of opportunities.

2007-03-26 10:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

This is a tough question.

That depends on the two people.

In most of the world, people have this idea that being an adult begins magically the day you turn 18 years old. It is often also thought that "Legal" drinking age is 21. Magically when you are 35 you can become president and at 65 qualify for retirement junk.

Mary, the mother of Jesus was thought of to be married at 15 and birthed Jesus at 15.

I would absolutely say, if you both are very very mature, are outcasts to stereotypical lifestyles of 15 year olds then yes, I believe it can be done.

Granted, the majority of western culture will persecute you because of your early matrimony.

People saying "see what is out there" are inviting adultery into the lives of children.

The questions you have to ask yourself is namely if you are not a "typical 15 year old".

1) Do you still follow clicks / fashion?
2) Listen to younger generation music?
3) Hang out with friends on routine?
4) Worry if the other cheats etc.
5) Drugs? Drinking? Smoke?

If you answered yes to the above, forget it.

Next for matrimony

1) Do you like to spend all your time with your "other" and have no outside friends that influence the both of you?

2) Do both of you have plans that eliminate the need for college, money, and other useless "worldly" concerns?

3) Are both of you willing to dedicate your entire lives together no matter what?

If you answered yes to the three above, then perhaps yes. Know each other just a bit longer though. Your personality type GREATLY can influence this decision.

For everybody that hates my answer, kiss my butt I was married at 16 and it's been 40 years now.

2007-03-26 17:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by C&S ; 2 · 2 0

There is a possibility that they may get married in the future but here is a much stronger possibility that they will not. Since both are 15, neither one of them is mature enough to know what they want and 99% of the time will not last as a couple through high school.

2007-03-26 17:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1 0

Well....They are not entirely at the right age for marriage, but they can still plan it as a future Goal.

It would certainly take them a lot to ensure such a goal is achieved though.

All it takes them to do for the time being is to get closer to one another with the days.

At a later stage they would have known one another reasonably enough to establish solid grounds on which they could build future hopes.

For the time being, I would say it is too early to venture through the marriag issue...

In all cases, and with a general look, I would still say YES ... They both have most of what it takes to establish the concept of marriage but with some patience until they know it is EXACTLY what they wish to go for.

Most importantly, they both have to be WELL OFF to ensure they are not confronted with the hardship of life...

CONGRATULATIONS FOR THE FUTURE...

2007-03-26 17:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 1 0

NO NO NO!!! You both are to young to know what your dreams and aspirations will be for your future. You are a child, enjoy your childhood, you're an adult for a VERY long time! If you did get married at a young age, say 18, years later you might wonder how it would be to be with someone else.

2007-03-26 17:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 1 0

let me tell you, do you have what it takes, probalby yes, but... i mean do you really just see you two together forever until you guys get married? so your not gonna miss the chances of dating someone else, or the joy of being single? all i'm saying is enjoy your young life, no one knows whats gonna be like in the future, cause at 15 you really haven't seen the whole world but if ya'll love each other and sure not gonna miss anything then go for it.

2007-03-26 22:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your 15...dont even think about marriage. You have so much life ahead of you...and your going to want to experience a lot of things. Think about it..college and bars and clubs will just not be the same fun experience if you know your married and have a husband at home. Part of growing up is experiencing the fun of being single and wild. It may seem liek you love him now...but its a thing called "puppy love". Trust me you will regret an early life marriage and it will sooner or later end up in resentment and divorce. Do you knwo how many other fisha re outt here for you? DO NOT limit yourself to one person just yet......

2007-03-26 17:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kris 4 · 1 0

I think you both are too young to think about getting married. Enjoy your youth and have a good time cause the chance won't come again. One day, when you're older, you'll understand. You're still kids with dreams. Dream something else for a little while. Godloveya'll

2007-03-26 17:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1 0

No as you two are at the beginning stage, you still
have to go through pubirty in a relationship then
when you graduate from that then you can talk
about marriage as once you are that means you
and him have committed to each other for the rest
of your life and in order to get to that stage you
him have a lot of trials and tirbulations in knowing
exactly who you and him are for each other.

2007-03-26 23:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0 0

It depends where you are located in the world, but off hand, I'd say no. At 15 your lives really haven't even started. If you still feel the same at 20 then talk about it.

2007-03-26 17:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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