hes my very first boyfriend.i've had lovers before but never a proper boyfriend.(is there a difference?for me there is.).its stressing me out.2 of my friends(1 my ex and one his),are really supportive and telling me that he does love me and that it means nothing.its just the way he is.i know is nothing a person can do to stop someone from cheating.but i am really stressed out cause of his flirting.my boyfriend tells me he does love me and wont ever leave me.but i just cant believe him.i dont know what to do anymore.
2007-03-26 10:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by conner_conner11 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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do you know that?i am darn well NOT a female!
2007-03-26 10:12:51 · update #1
before we got together i've always been highly amused of watching him flirt with others.its different now though...
2007-03-26 10:15:29 · update #2
he does not mean to upset you con :(
please talk to him tomorrow before you have a heart attack.let me know ya?
2007-03-26 12:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by dream_hawk22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is harmless if it isn't taken too far,we all do it even when we don't realise it.However if it's hurtful to you then ask him to tone it down a bit when you're together.Maybe it's because it's your first actual relationship that you're feeling vulnerable.Without wishing to offend you though,don't you think it's a bit early after a matter of weeks to be declaring undying love.Maybe if you both slowed things down you wouldn't be feeling as stressed? Hope things work out for you.
2007-03-26 12:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you are very secure at all. Personally I have no problem with flirting - about to get married and my fiance does it all that time, he's just not very good at it.
You should try telling him that it upsets you and that he needs to work harder at making you feel comfortable.
But, you know, flirting is meaningless. Maybe you just need to relax a bit.
2007-03-26 10:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take flirting seriously i got a guide that will help u acutrally. if he just says hi cutie to a girl thats okay men do that all the time slap a girls butt okay take caution. catch him sweating when he see's another girl slap him harder then the law suits on maichel jackson. lol seriously though
2007-03-26 10:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to stop... if he REALLY loves you he will..... because you SHOULD be the ONLY girl he would want in his life.
if he doesnt... well... i personally would leave him.
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if you knew he was this way when you got with him.. then this is your problem... you cant really expect someone to change for you.. you knew he was like this and you still got with him...
you can ask if he can stop.. but if he doesnt want to... well.. again its up to you what you want to do...
but you really put yourself in this pickle... next time dont pick a guy who is like this...
2007-03-26 10:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Loathing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been two months?
Wait until it's been twenty YEARS, then you'll have something to complain about!
2007-03-26 10:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that he does love you but he is just not shower how to show you yet so he is not been as lovely as you want him to be lol well just talk to him about it and see what he has to say about that's all just talk to him that's the best thing you can do about it
2007-03-26 10:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by alisha bessette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him 2 stop flitin> that its not right and ur sick of it. if he throws a fit and doesnt stop then hes only thinkin of his happiness.
2007-03-26 10:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by jessiegurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋