Ok so there's this girl at church that I like. I really really like her. The problem is that I have never ever had a girfriend. It's not that I can't, it's just that my parents don't let me. I need tips on how to get her. The thing is that I don't think she likes me.
HELP!!!!!
2007-03-26 09:56:40 · 18 answers · asked by ~'J3sus Sid3 W@rri○r '~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok so I know this girl and I really like her. not only that but I a m really good friends with her. the problem is that I have never had a Girlfriend before so I have No experience on how to get a girlfriend. so If anyone can help me Out it would help a lot.
HEEELLLPPP!!!!!
2007-03-26 10:11:42 · update #1
go up 2 her and say hi and become friends and take it from there
2007-03-26 10:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude. First of all don't pursue someone who DOESN'T like you! You will only make things worse! There are lots of cuties out there...find one of them. This girl is OVER, even before she started. Do yourself a favor and don't obsess about her!! Trust me on this.
To get a girlfriend, you need to change your style. Stop looking like a punked out rap artist and get yourself some clothes that make you look like you're going to make a lot of money in the future! Kind of the Julio Iglesias look (you can google him if you want to know how he dresses).
Then, just be cool and don't hesitate to ask a girl out for lunch. If a girl is attracted to you, she will let you know. If she isn't she will let you know. Don't waste time on the the ones that don't like you! Its not a personal things. It just people want to date those whom they like!
Good luck.
2007-03-26 10:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the church youth group and invite her to join it too.
If she doesn't like you it's ok. You just need to know that your love for her does not guarantee her reciprocal affection.
Just don't take it personal if she rebuffs you. Girls enjoy doing that, especial if they don't have any prior feelings towards the guy. However with persistence she might grow to like you if you act maturely and reasonable, showing that you have your priorities right.
Good lucky,
2007-03-26 10:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Life Dynamics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, be yourself. Maybe talk to your parents about it and see if you guys can make a compromise, and explain that you like her a lot. And start talking to her, getting to know her, and maybe in the end ask her out. Just don't act stalkerish or creepy, it turns a girl off completely and makes them scared.
2007-03-26 10:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres always the first time for everything, if you like her, let her know. If your parents dont let you have a girlfriend and u obey them in that part, than sorry...u wont experience having a girlfriend. I say if you like her, let her know.....once again, there's always the first time for everything
2007-04-03 09:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by txladybug_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are friends...that is the first step. Honestly it is alot harder for a girl and guy to be friends and NOT end up dating!
Chances are she already "likes" you.
Start small...try giving her a compliment.
2007-04-03 02:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by sistermarybella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay my love all you have to do is one day wen u see her go up to her and talk to her and tell her how you feel about her then if she also likes you at least you know she does and always compliment the ladies most chicks like me lol like compliments talk about her eyes or make a poem about her its always romantic well gud luk hope you get her =]!
2007-03-26 10:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start taling to her until you guys become good friends to where you talk all the time at church! try to impress her but dont make it too obvious! and then once you guys are frineds start talking to her about 'that dubject' and then ask her out!!! good luck!
2007-03-26 10:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by aviator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that u really love her or feel that u like her try to make this feeling be stronger and try to make her notice that u love her u may do alot of things .............
u can wright letter and put it in her sketch or coat without she feel send her messages from different phones , put to her white rose on her chair ..............
come on do any thing before some one come and take it ...............
i will be her for u any time ........
manas
2007-04-03 09:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by manas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your trying to "get" chicks while in church? I think you need to go to confession more often.
2007-04-03 03:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by Newtron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋