Anal Sex Question?

Question

PLEASE DONT LAUGH I WANTED TO KNOW IF ANAL SEX CAN CAUSE YOU TO HAVE ANY SERIOUS PROBLEMS TO YOUR BOWELS OR INTESTINES. I KNOW THE RECTUM IS DESIGNED FOR THINGS TO EXIT OUT OF IT BUT NOT FOR THINGS TO GO IN (especally not in a thrusting motion). SO PLEASE GIVE ME A SERIOUS ANSWER. THANX FOR ALL ANSWERS

NICOLE

Answer 1

Gosh Seth, how can I ever thank you for speaking on behalf of all women? Being a man it must be difficult for you to have such empathy and I have to commend you on possessing such insight into how women feel. Just in case you didn't realize it I'd better let you know that I'm being sarcastic.

I realize that the rectum might not have been, in a very narrow sense of the definition, designed for sexual activity but neither was the mouth. It appears that some people will only be happy if everyone else in the world conforms to their unique idea of what is or is not proper. Time for a reality check. Not all women dislike anal sex. It's true that some hate it but it's equally true that some love it. We're all different and that's how it should be. There isn't anything wrong with those who dislike it just as there isn't anything wrong with those who like it. Not everyone is going to conform to either you or momof3's concept of sexual propriety.

Now to the question which I should have addresed first. I'm not laughing Nicole. The truth is that it's easy to be confused by all the misinformation and old wives tales that are told about anal sex. It isn't for everyone and if you don't like it that's fine but there are a lot of people out there that have anal sex on a regualr basis and never have and difficulties. So long a some common sense, and lubrication, is used there aren't any problems that result from anal. You won't have to wear a diaper, old wives tale, or become paralized below the waist, old wives tale, or become an anal sex addict,,,okay I find it enjoyable but addict is a strong word.

The ones who are lying here are the people who are telling people that doing something sexual beyond some tiny defenition of normal will somehow warrent punishment. Make up your own mind and don't let anyone, even me, tell you what you should think.

Answer 2

No, it can't really hurt you unless your man is thrusting seriously hard, in which case it is possible to hit an ovary. But you have to be in a certain position for that to happen anyway. The only real problem that can happen with it over an extended period of time is rectal prolapse, and that's where the rectum basically doesn't go back to its original size because it's been stretched out for too long, too often, and it doesn't retain the same shape anymore.

Answer 3

I had anal sex and it didn't mess up my bowel movement or anything, just be careful when they put it in, make sure it's lubricated if not it'll will hurt so bad. Just relax and enjoy it

Answer 4

omg I almost got upset because i saw momof3 referenced that was one of my ID's I had to look and see if i had weighed in. Glad it wasn't me who upset someone. I personally enjoy anal sex and am female. But I do not think its for everyone. However, judging people based on something as individual as their sexuality is too much. Its a personal choice and I think judgment should be left in ones head and not spewed in a hateful manner.

Answer 5

Anal sex can be a great method for sharing skin and making intimate contact without worrying about pregnancy, but being careless about disease transmission is never an acceptable alternative to healthy sexual expression. Just as with standard penis-in-vagina intercourse, you always need to use protection, such as a latex or polyurethane condom with either nonoxynol-9 in it to kill sperm and bacteria. Or if you prefer, use a nonlubricated condom without the spermicidal ingredient. (Whichever you choose, it's important to apply lubricant over the condom before you insert it.) After orgasm and ejaculation occurs, be sure to hold the base of the condom to prevent slippage or spillage.
It can also cause trauma to the lower part of the intestine, so it's up to your common sense to see what feels safe and what doesn't.

Answer 6

Its a good question. I don't think you will do any damage by the repeated motion. I think you would feel the pain before that would happen. You would know something bad was happening before it got too far. Use lube, and just take your time.
Also, if the guy is really huge, it might cause problems.

Answer 7

momof3, anal sex is not a position... lol. You can have anal sex doggy or missionary or spooning...

it's not going to hurt you just try to take a good poop before hand so it doesn't get compacted and he doesn't get poopdick. don't try to fight it by clenching your butt muscles, just relax them by trying to push out and he will slide right in. Think about it when you push out to take a poop, poops come out that are bigger around than a penis, at least my poops are bigger around than my penis, it will only hurt if you clench up, because a penis is harder than a poop. So basically you just have to try to control your sphincter muscle and keep it relaxed by trying to push out and it will be fine. Use lots of lube

Answer 8

i won't laugh but i'll cry in pain. i have tried it a few times only felt good once. make sure lots of lub and you gotta be SUPER horny and try a position that you have the control and dont' shove it in in the first thrust you will cry i promise!

Answer 9

It's entirely up to the individuals. If it brings pleasure.do it

Answer 10

I don't think anything bad happens, I mean, I've been doing it for a while with my girl.