it is my sister's birthday next week and she is arranging a party at an exclusive nightclub. she's called a lot of friends, but not me.
im upset, we've always been so close....
should i say anything to her
2007-03-26 09:31:51 · 23 answers · asked by shells 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say something, maybe shes just taken it for granted you are going and hasn't bothered giving you an invitation? If you have always been close and haven't fell out etc.. then talk to her.
2007-03-26 10:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Affence. But Maybe She Just Doesn't Want You There. Its Her Day Leave Her To It. On Your Birthday Have A Big Party And Dont Invite Her. See How She Feels.
2007-03-26 09:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by RaCHii3 --x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should say something to her. If you're close, there would seem to be no reason why you haven't been invited. Maybe an invite got lost in the post or something. If you talk to her, you can soon find out what's going on.
2007-03-26 09:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be just like my sister, a little bit dense at times.
She probably thinks as you are family that she dosen't have to formally invite you and that you'll be going anyway.
If you still feel a bit put out, ask her in a friendly jokey way where your invite is.
2007-03-26 10:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just assume that you have been invited and just turn up? since you are family member after all... maybe your sister hasn't invited you because she knows you will know you have a place there already without her saying so.
2007-03-26 10:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Heinrich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should say something. She may be thinking that you don't need an invitation because you're her sister and she assumes you'll be there as part of the family.
Clear the air; ask her.
2007-03-26 09:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by MomBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just assumes you will be there. maybe call her and ask her what she's doing for her bday. if she tells you ask if u can come if she doesn't mention it and blatantly lies to your face then get mad and make sure she knows u won't stand for it, and she won't do it again. but the if she tell you she doesn't want you to be there and gives a good reason why try to be understanding, let her know your disappointed but go out and have some fun with your friends
2007-03-26 09:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by white_funny_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definately mention it.....does she feels that she doesnt need to give you the official invite and is assuming you will go anyway or has she just deliberately left you out? tell her how you feel or better still invite yourself......she is your sister after all!!!!!!!! i would just crash the party and have a ball
2007-03-26 09:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her but don't get all nasty if she says she doesn't want you there. It could be that she just assumes you are going or perhaps she has just forgotten. Or it may be that she justs wants a night out with her friends. It doesn't mean she doesn't still think the world of you, it could be that you are just too different from her friends.
2007-03-26 10:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by willowbee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be upset too.
I think you should phone her and ask her if you are invited.
If you are close and she says no then you should be able to sort it out with her.
Hope you get it sorted, and definitely say something, it could just be a misunderstanding.
2007-03-26 09:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by sassym 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋