Just wondering. Men and Wemen. I go through periods where I do alot and then some where I do not so much. This is just about thoughts not whether you would or would not.
2007-03-26 09:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thoughts only....probably every day...at least every day maybe more
2007-03-26 09:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon what is going on in my life at the time, but I would say it averages a couple times a day. Fantasizing is perfectly normal and actually can be healthy as long as it is kept in perspective. Once it starts to create desires to commit adultery or unrealistic expectations on your relationship, it can become very troublesome.
While I fantasize about other women, that is exactly what it is: fantasy. I would never want the fantasy to come true because it would hurt my wife, my children, and ultimately it would be a selfish act of wanton lust that would create more problems than it would ever be worth. I love my wife more than anything regardless of whomever may flitter through my mind as a sexual appetizer.
If kept in perspective there is no problem, but if it is not then it needs to be examined.
2007-03-26 16:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by LaNell the Relationship Expert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when I watch Dog the Bounty Hunter I think about a sexual adventure with Leland. But I only fantasize about it. I wouldn't actually go out and cheat. I'm sure he has the same fantasies about Eva Longoria.
There's a saying, "It doesn't matter where you get your appetite from, as long as you eat at home."
2007-03-26 16:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have thoughts usually several times a day, but I wish they would go away. They are totally unproductive and provide me with no benefits whatsoever.
2007-03-26 16:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the time. Just did the nasty with Oprah and she brought me a new Rolls Royce. Of course that was all in my head.
2007-03-26 16:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
daily,whenever I see a beautiful one with her wind in the air.. Am a trucker and wecan wee from way up there.. not that we would ever act on it, but we enjoy the view..love a convertable too.
2007-03-26 16:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by road runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time I see a pretty girl! Gee wonder what that would be like.HaHa
2007-03-26 16:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by solow321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 to 4 time a week and its still like new!!!
2007-03-26 16:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I see someone that looks like they would be entertaining... Fantasizing is healthy I think...
2007-03-26 16:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Steffi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never, honest. I just think of him, and only him. Married over 17 years.
2007-03-26 16:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never did when i was with my husband .. but hey everyone is different .. thoughts are not actions after all .. but i do wonder--is it harder to not act when u let yourself have those thoughts .. hmmm
2007-03-28 09:38:34 · answer #11 · answered by Jel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋