HELP ME WOMEN PLEASE! i need help from women with experience please, im so WORRIED?

Question

what would the chances be of me being pregnant, i had sex February 1st, used a condom, and it was 2 days before my period ended?(it was my first and only time)

the next cycle i had was lighter and shorter than my normal cycle(march 3)...well since that day i had been paranoid of pregnancy, i felt guilty and realize i wasnt ready, well all month i worried and worried, so i was told my stress probably caused that, also i took a urine test at the docs and it came out negative the before i got that light and short period..

well now my next cycle is due to come around and ever since about 2 weeks ago ive been getting lower back pain and pain on my left lower abdomen and sometimes on my right side, pressure on my stomach, and urinating alot, i dont know what to do can it be my nerves still going or what, im just so worried of becoming pregnant thats why i stopped having sex after that one time, i just hope it wasnt too late

Answer 1

I DO NOT THINK YOU ARE PREGNANT I THINK THE STRESS YOU ARE UNDER AND THE WORRY ARE WHAT IS CAUSING ALL THE SYMPTOMS!
CALM DOWN AND RELAX AND NOW YOU KNOW NOT TO HAVE SEX!! ITS NOT WORTH IT!

Answer 2

You are probably not pregnant yes the stress will cause you to have an irregular period. The cramping and excessive urinating could be a urinary tract infection? In any case I would see the Dr witht the complaints of lower back pain and left side pain. And if you are still very concerned I would take a pregnancy test either over the counter or at the Dr's which ever you prefer. If the next test comes back negative then take a deep breath and relax and believe it! Good luck and I hope things go OK for you!

Answer 3

I don't think you are pregnant. I think you are worrying too much, but i know how you feel! I remember my first time and I was SOOOO worried all month long and for like a month after getting my period even. Because people had told me that you can still have a period when you're pregnant. I worried constantly about it. You should be fine. You used a condom and you HAVE had your period. So just try not to worry. If you were preggo, a test would pick it up by now! Go get birth control, it will give you more peace of mind. Your parents never have to know. It's the law in most places that they aren't allowed to contact anyone reguarding your interest or participation in bc/family planning. Good Luck

Answer 4

It doesn't sound like your pregnant, especially if you took the urine test and it was negative. They are pretty accurate. You could take a home pregnancy test...you'd definitely be far enough along for that. While some women have shorter, lighter periods it's more rare then not having one at all. Pain in your abdomen and pressure on your stomach aren't typical symtoms of pregancy (more like a miscarriage) and while urinating often can be, there are numerous other reasons you could be doing that. I think it's just your nerves. Try not to worry and take a home pregnancy test. That'll let you know for sure. Good luck!

Answer 5

Chances are, you are not pregnant, especially if you had a pregnancy test right before your next period. It could be stress, but if you are still worried, I'd suggest a home pregnancy test and if it comes out positive, then go see your doc again or go to your local health dept. or health clinic. You can get pregnant however, during your period, especially if you are young and have irregular periods anyway. Also, condoms are not 100% effective, so there is a possibility. I'd definitely do another follow-up with a doc or OBGYN or as I said before too, with your local health dept. or health clinic.

Answer 6

don't worry your body is going through changes bc its your first time doing it and you constantly thinking about it is making more symptoms come about plus the stress factor may have made your period a little lighter

but at that time you don't have very good odds of getting pregnant plus you used a condom so i'd say your definitly not pregnant but you do need to go see your doctor get on a birth control and then between birthcontrol and condoms you'll have 2 forms of birth control and you won't have to stress all the time

Answer 7

I know that when I was stressing about the same thing a couple years ago, my body actually skipped my period. I was so freaked about it, that I was almost a hypocondriac about it. If you think you are something, then your brain tricks your body into feeling the sympomts for it. The best thing is to chill out. If you don't get ur next period, just go to your gyno and get a test done.

Answer 8

It is unlikely but possible you are pregnant.

The only way to know for sure is to take a pregnancy test at home or at the doctor's.

I think you know what you need to do so you won't have this worry in the future. Stay celibate until you are married. There are other ways to show affection to your boyfriend without having intercourse. It is just not worth the worry it is causing you!

Answer 9

There are tons of matters that might motive this - there is a well danger that it is not anything critical. However, you might have an contamination or some thing else that calls for cure, so get right down to the Doctors as quickly as you'll - whether it is an contamination it might get plenty worse if left untreated.

Answer 10

You need to see a doctor again. You may not be pregnant, if you are not and you are not ready then I suggest, be careful next time! If you are pregnant please do the right thing! Do not abort the baby whatever you do- if you are not ready for the responsibility try giving the baby to an adoption center! Good Luck!