I have a friend issue... please help me!?

Question

Okay, i have this friend who is friends with another girl who I think hates me. We sit together at lunch, but she is very rude to me... I have talked to her about it, but she says "I don't think she hates you, and who really cares of she does?" I CARE! HELP!

Answer 1

The best way to settle this is to have that friend that hates you sit down with you and the two of you talk about this nicely taking care not to offend each other and makes matters worse. If you don't feel comfortable about this, ask your common friend to be there as well and try to be a mediator but not siding to any side. It may be just you are taking it the wrong way but it could also be a reason for that person to behave that way. Either way it will be nice to be able to have all these figured out, no?

Answer 2

so explain to your friend that you care about what the girl thinks. also you should probably talk to the other girl and ask her if she has a problem with you and talk to her about what and why you think the way you do. in the end though whether she likes you shouldn't matter she isn't a friend than but let her know that she may not have to like you but she can't be rude either. It's disrespectful. If she don't like you she should just not talk to you not be rude and disrespect you right and left.

Answer 3

I think that you should talk to you friend and ask her to ask her friend if she hates you. If you friend says the same thing then you can just talk to your friend's friend and ask her yourself. Ask her why she is being so rude to you when you didn't do anything. Or ask her in a nice way why she is acting like she hates you. If you talk things out then you would know and it could solve your problems. Hope this helps=)

Answer 4

If I were in your situation, I'd leave the two of them alone. Your other friends KNOWS it. And you know that when you're not around, they talk about you to some degree or another. I hope your're school-aged, because if you're an adult and have this problem, I don't know what to think.

But anyway, I would ditch the b**ches. (Yes, I typed those stars, so as not to offend anyone.)

Answer 5

why is she rude? are u being rude? she is not ur friend so u don't av 2 b around her. u can try talking 2 her about her attitude 2wards you cuz sometimes frenz are jealous that another person mite take away their fren from them. if she doesn't like u then don't av lunch with ur friend wen she's around. mayb u can spend that time makin new frenz or even meet a new lunch partner(s)

Answer 6

You are having a few issues today, aren't you?

Ignore the rude person, let it roll off your shoulders, you are being insecure and I agree w/your other friend, why do you care if she does?

Answer 7

Your friend is right. You shouldn't worry about her to much. The more you let her control what you think about yourself, the more annoying she'll get. Just ignore her and move on. If I were you though, I would tell her off. But that's just me. Don't do it! :P

Answer 8

Try talking to this person who seems to hate you. That's the most you can do.

Best of luck!

Answer 9

If your friend won't help you out, you need to take it into your own hands. Talk to that girl to see what she has to say. You deserve to be treated with respect.

Answer 10

JUST IGNORE HER AND ASK YOUR FRIEND IF YOU CAN HANG OUT WITH THEM BUT YOU WOULD JUST HANG OUT AND TALK TO THE GIRL WHO LIKES YOU(YOUR FRIEND)! That happend to me before trust me,in no time I was friends with the girl that hated me.