My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and I'm afraid he has lost interest in having sex with me.
2007-03-26 09:01:00 · 10 answers · asked by llebanna99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get your hair done and buy a new outfit. Get all sexy for him and make sure you have a teddy on that he will rip off of you instantly. Have a little swagger in your walk when you flirt with him. Take him into the bedroom and make it a night he will never forget.
2007-03-26 09:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by teri d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother "re-igniting" after the spark has died? Consider it an Opportunity to MOVE ON and find someone as willing as you to keep the passion fire burning....Love is a Choice and you can't choose for the partner who's willing to let the affection die. You can only be responsible for your OWN emotional well-being. Don't tolerate being someone's "back-up plan"...If they've moved on, they've already determined you're Not The ONE....Don't allow your self to be mis-used or undervalued....once that starts, it's DOWN-HILL from there... MOVE ON. Love yourself and be confident in your own worth.
2007-03-26 16:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jain D' Vine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find the answer tell me....ive been married for 8 years and we went from on fire to...fizzle. For us, its the kids, and i dont blame them or feel ill twords them. Im fact, they are the best things in my life. I thank god for them and they bring such joy into my life. The problem is, is that our relationship and how we deal with one another changed so much after my kids were born that we are now two different people. Different needs, different wants...different way of expressing ourselves. None of them match.
The most profound way we are different is with sex. At first i didnt want sex....and it was from depression. My world turned upsidedown when we first got married. I went from single to married with kids. My wifes personality drove me crazy. Her anal-retentive nature and want, want, demand mentality drove me away. After the kids got older...she pushed me away when i got help for my ills. She told me it was because i had pushed her away for so long and because she is now tired. That if she had a choice between sex, a good book or sleep...sex would be her 3rd pick.
Ive tried romance. Helping out more. Gifts. Cards. Poems. Giving her, her space. Nothing. Ive tried talking to her and all that gets me are promises of things in the future that i KNOW wont happen. I think im my mind i want what will never be.
So...what will ignite that spark. Its the last card in my deck. Honesty. Sit your man down and tell him of your needs. Of your desires. The things you miss about being intimate. The areas of your body and soul that needs a caress....
Because i know if my wife did that for me....we wouldnt have problems...anymore.
2007-03-26 16:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to perk your sex life up with maybe a sexy nightie or some rubbing oils that heat up when messaged in. Light some candles, make a scrumptuous meal and let it all hang out.....some people play roles, but thats not for me. Try different places, different times..
2007-03-26 16:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by aka nuggets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be creative and spontaneous. You may also want to check out some books on the subject to get some ideas. Indoor picnics, feeding him in the tub, read to him, massages, lingerie, love notes, etc.
2007-03-26 16:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yes there is!
just take him somewhere ...surprise him!
plan a day and put a blindfold on him and no matter how many times he asks dont tell him where you are going! let it be a surprise!
take him somewhere you know that he will love!
great things will happen
2007-03-26 16:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take off all your clothes and make out a lot in your room with the lights turned off
2007-03-26 16:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by tanjellokiwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god yes you can, why not go on dates, tart yourself up and meet in a bar, or suprise him when he gets back from work with sexy undies, remind him your a sex kitten again lol
2007-03-26 16:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a romantic night away for the two of you... new nighties, and a LOT of touching!
2007-03-26 16:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup....Drink alcohal and watch pornos!!
2007-03-26 16:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋