Im having trouble with a friend of mine. We've been fighting a lot lately. Im sure the fights are occuring because im really insecure about our friendship and hes inconsiderate of my feelings. Which i have told him. I've told him plenty of times what it is that makes me insecure, and what hurts me. His actions make me think that he doesn't really care about me therefore i get insecure, and we fight. Hes getting really tired of me, and im tired of it too. Deep down i think he does care about me, but sometimes signs just point to no, and i flip! I want to stop. I want to get over it but its hard. We've been best friends for a year, he says we are not as close because my fighting. how can i fix this before he leaves forever? before i ruin it. how do i get over it and move forward. i dont want to lose my best friend.
2007-03-26 08:50:10 · 8 answers · asked by Youll See 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
being insecure can ruin any relationship. stop being so needy and maybe he will come around. maybe u should tell him how u really feel & leave it at that. it sounds like maybe u like him n a different way. give him his space.
2007-03-26 09:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by mschesskey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is have a little faith in your friendship and don't give up hold on to him as long as you possibly cann. dont give up on this you can make things work out just learn to trust him and be kind to yourself and dont forget that you have feelings too but that doesnt mean you have to forget about him. just do the best you can. he does care about you even if it doesnt feel like it he really does.
2007-03-26 09:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tiggs09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to solve a problem you can't define. After all you said, I don't know what exactly the problem IS, but it sounds like you want more out of him than he wants to give you. Back off and give him space. Accept that he's just a friend, and treat him like one. And don't nag. Sorry, but you do sound like a nag.
2007-03-26 08:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds that you are treating him as a boyfriend in stead of a friendboy. try spacing or maybe ya'll just out grown each other.
2007-03-26 09:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think hes really your friend if hes making you insecure.i suggest telling him that hes just not working out as yuor best friend and find a new friend.
2007-03-26 09:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by jadedearing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just learn to be more carefree, and not to take things to serious. or maybe its cuz you guys see each other too much. try something different.
2007-03-26 08:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by anthony y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can someone who's inconsiderate about your feelings be your best friend??
2007-03-26 08:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey boo
2007-03-26 08:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by iCantAidYou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋