what to do during s@x....was there something wrong in my childhood that causes me to be this way?
2007-03-26 08:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I find nothing wrong with that. Hell more people need to start telling people what they like in bed. It will make the experience more enjoyable for both. Giving and receiving pleasure what could be better. I hate quiet sex it makes me cringe! The noises and crazy faces are a turn on!
2007-03-26 09:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not at all! You are perfectly normal. Many people have either dominating or submissive attitudes in the bedroom.
I happen to be a submissive. Have you looked at any resources for people who are interested in BDSM?
I included a super generic link below, but you will get lots more info if you do an internet search on the term.
2007-03-26 16:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by coyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dominate in a mean or cruel way, then there is probley some subliminal reason you are doing it. If this is the guy that started with the oral when he was 12, then it may have been what he wanted or was used to. I think dthat if it is done in a constructive way, it can enhance sex and a lot of guys want to know what their partner wants.
2007-03-26 15:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Brent W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if anything was wrong in your childhood, but you can dominate, control and tell me what to do anytime!
2007-03-26 18:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by cd_aimee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually something right - you learned that communication is important!
2007-03-26 15:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋