He is sooooooo hot. OMG . I am 18 and he makes me melt. He has the cutest accent. He lives next door to me. He is from Peru and is very kinky in bed. I love being naked in his arms and in the shower with him. My parents are strict Japanese parents. They would kill me if they found out. How can I keep it a secret? what if he gets me pregnant?
2007-03-26 08:20:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
babe if hes good in bed i say go for it
just dont tell your parents
use a condom or birth control
and you will be fine
2007-03-26 08:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
I would say that you have way too big of an age gap, but you know what, you're both legal adults and that is for you two to decide. If he treats you right, and you're happy, go for it.
Do you live with your parents or not? If not, then I don't think you have to do much to hide it other than not talk about him around them. If you do live with them, I don't know how you'd keep it quiet.
As far as pregnancy goes, use condoms and the pill every time, that way your chances of gettting pregnant are practically nil. And then if you do get pregnant you can always take plan b or get an abortion... after all, you did say that your parents would kill you, so you're perfectly justified in that.
2007-03-26 15:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Rat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's entirely up to you. However, I would question why a man of 47 would want to be with someone as young (apart from the obvious). How do you know that when you are a bit older he won't dump you and take up with someone who is 18 again? Also, I worry that you say "what if he gets me pregnant" as if you were leaving it to chance! Make sure he doesn't!
2007-03-26 15:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by the_emrod 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At 18 you are considered an adult, therefore it's not wrong. You can keep it a secret by not telling ANYONE! As far as getting pregnant, make sure one or both of you wear protection.
2007-03-26 17:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by Grrr! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't required to tell your parents, but you should be using birth control. You should make him use a condom every single time, and you should also go to your OB/GYN and get yourself on birth control of some kind. If you are responsible, you won't have to worry about getting pregnant. I made it to age 30 without impregnating anyone, and I'v had my share of casual sex, booty calls etc.
It's A-OK. You are both legal adults, and you're having fun, so there's no problem, as long as you are safe.
2007-03-26 16:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will not be a secret toolong cause someone will find you out. Sometimes we play around and the end is not good and one needs to consider by being serious with their life.
2007-03-26 15:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can u make sure he's a legal citizen!
Watch OUt....
Once ur pregnant, he might wanna get married to u for the whole "a child needs a family bull"
2007-03-26 15:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by bklyn_11206 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he is hot! Plus older men have experience and know how to hold you, feel you and the right words to charm you. Been there, its fun! But be careful, they love young girls, who doesnt? Dont get too attached emotionally. As far as your parents, they dont need to know. You also need to be super careful, use birth control or condoms! You can prevent pregnancy!
2007-03-27 02:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lenita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wrong! Pre-marital sex is dangerous too! Lying to your parents is wrong too! In 20 years, when you get to 38 he will be 67 and ready to retire. I think it is lust and short lived. Meeting someone next door is not a soul mate and I would predict that you will be hurt in the long run. I think you are right and it is wrong that is why you are questioning him. PS. I count three wrongs. PPS. Date 50-people and stay out of bed and you will find your soul mate for life.
2007-03-26 15:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by hot wheels 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
first of all use condoms, that way you have less risk of getting pregnant and getting any kind of sexual disease. If you like the guy and both of you are having fun I don't see anything wrong with it. Good luck telling your parents though, they are not going to like it.
2007-03-26 15:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by rickyhunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a fool. He probably has some Perivuan coke & that is why he seems so good, plus you are inexperianced & he is not. He is a dog & will drop you as soon as you say the word baby.
2007-03-26 15:25:14 · answer #11 · answered by ChaliQ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋