low self esteem, trust issues, ect????Also how would i know if my husband is smothering me or is afraid of loosing me? Do they put off certain signs or no??
I love him to death i mean i would do anything for him, he is my one and only however he gets very insecure if guys walk by and look at me, or if i look in the direction of a man, he gets upset if my guy friends text me just saying what's up, he always has to know who is texting me, calling me, he wants to know exactly what the messages say ect..
Also if were watching a movies and their is a good looking man on the t.v, i won't even say anything he will sit their and watch me to see if i am staring or making faces to the guys on t.v like i want to do them or something for example ill be my husband. " haha I see you, staring at that guys body like you want to do him". I look at him and say no babe your trippin and he says " ya huh i saw you, you don't even look at me that way."
I tell him i'm watching the dam movie chill out
2007-03-26 08:16:08 · 8 answers · asked by Kasja 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know about low self-esteem, but I wonder if he might have a paranoid personality disorder. The below website contains some pretty good information:
2007-03-26 08:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's... insecure, possessive and borderline control-freak. Did you not know this about him before you were married?
Your texts should be your business, and if you can't admire a movie actor it's no wonder he gets jealous over guys passing in the street.
This is HIS problem with insecurity and control -- but watch yourself, because there's often a temper behind all of that possessiveness. Start setting him some ground rules and don't put up with him curbing you like he's trying to do.
2007-03-26 15:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he needs some counceling. I know it hard to open up to him and tell him because of these issues, all he would do is get angry. Find a way to bring to his attention or just end the relationship because you won't be able to handle it for long.
2007-03-26 15:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by wyattj23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is insecure. some guys are just like that, like some women are. you cant change someone, and they rarely change themselves. my sister has the same problem, she just ignores her husband when he gets that way. i dont know what to tell you , some people might say you need marriage counseling. but to me going there just make you admit what you already know, but it might work for you .
2007-03-26 15:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by andy a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soundsa little insecure. you can usually tell form your womanly insticts if they are suffering from insecurity and low self esteem.
2007-03-26 15:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all must be a very young married couple.
2007-03-26 15:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mechelle B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be really hot or he has a small johnson.???.
2007-03-26 15:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by jed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever see that movie "Fear" ?
2007-03-26 15:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋