i just wanted to know why a man would stray?
i mean i keep thinking myself if i was to get close to someone of opposite sex, i really wouldnt dare to do it.
i love my husband and wanted to know when men say they love their partners if they mean it if they shared something special with someone else.
oh and im not sexist, i mean both men and women cheats.
i just wanted to know how you can share something like that with another person when you could have gone to your partner as they are the one you love- they say.
serious answers please
2007-03-26 07:48:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
like i always say... baby,.. i will not replace you with her... i'm just going to sleep with her and that's it... it doesn't mean anything.
variety. like how my box of chololate is.
seriously, it's because what we have at home is not the same as before... everything is boring. i want my partner to do something that would make me want to come home from work so early just to be with her... i want her to he sexy and witty... fun (no nagging and complaining)... i always tell my girl... always be the girlfriend and not the wife... (at least not all the time)
Girlfriend= fun. exciting. (most important....*always looking good*).
Wife= comfortable. boring. nagging. complaining. no fun.
*my opinion*
little surprises make a big difference.
2007-03-26 08:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I cheated on my ex boyfriend simply because I was unhappy. I had tried hard to make the relationship work, but he never trusted me & I was sick & tired of being accused of doing things that I wasn't! I told him several times that the more he accused me of cheating, the more it would push me away from him & I was right. Eventually it got to the stage where I thought "if that's who you think I am, then that's who I will be". I wish I hadn't done, I should have had the courage to end the relationship first.
However, the guy I cheated on him with is now my boyfriend & we are very happy together a year on & both trust each other completely. I know that I would never ever cheat on this one.
2007-03-26 08:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lola G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive been in a situation like that an i cheated beacuse he wouldnt give me what i want...the thing with women an men is that women cheat beacuse there not gettin what they want from ther man so they find it in another man...and men cheat mayb beacuse they want to try a new women..im not even sure why men cheat i think its a commitment thing...i dont know but cheating is so wrong i regret it an will never do it again.
2007-03-26 07:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cheated once, and i regretted it!!! i liked the guy but my ex's gran died, so i went to comfort him, one thing led to another, and i was still in love with him,but i hurt the other guy so badly, and nothing condones what i did, there is no real excuse for it, i did wrong!!! i got back with my ex after that for over a year!!!
i think sometimes your in a situation and you just lose track of yourself for just a few seconds, then minutes, and then you just dig yourself deeper into the hole and cant get out. it seems selfish but if you have not been in the situation you cannot judge it, and dont realise how bad the guy is really feeling about what he did, its not making it easier on him for you to just get up and go over a mistake that maybe couldnt have been prevented!!!!
2007-03-26 10:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by fear of the dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand that some people get tempted because relationships are not perfect. when you are in a rut for whatever reason it's easy to turn to someone else. but what i don't understand is how you can then lie to your partner, sometimes for years...how do people do that? I think the lie is worse than the betrayal.
2007-03-26 07:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by the dougal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dad cheated on my mam and said it was because he didn't love her and was only with her until us kids grew up (I was 15 at this point).
I was the one who had to tell her about the affair as he was too cowardly so needless to say I have a low opinion of cheaters.
If you would cheat on your partner why are you with them? You can't possibly love them when you are humilliating them.
2007-03-26 07:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, its the sex and excitement of a new relationship. I know its wrong but I just cant control myself. Ive been this way since I was a teen.(I am 31)
2007-03-26 09:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. some times your not getting everything you need from the person your with so somehow you try to find it. and alot of the time we try the wrong way. insted of looking outside the relationship, communicate, talk about everything and then spend time together just the 2 of you.
2007-03-26 07:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by kaylarenee511 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt exactly cheat if youre only considering sex as cheating (which is what it sounds like)
i kissed another guy, and regretted it as soon as i did it...i think it was a combination of feeling a bit lonely (long distance relationship), being very drunk, and the guy being very persistant
2007-03-26 08:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by northukstudent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boredom. Something different. Generally it's a physical thing and not an emotional thing. I'm not proud of it, but I have cheated.... one night stands when I've been with someone.
2007-03-26 07:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋