our thing started out as friendship but the more i knew him the more i fell in love with him... the problem about this is that my bf like him but i dont want to hurt he r feelings... if i choose the guy i hurt her feelings; if i choose my friend i hurt my feelings i wouldnt stand it ...... and guess what i am hooking them up!!!!
2007-03-26 07:40:37 · 7 answers · asked by yurikobarrera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What you should do is tell your friend that you like him too and both of you stay away from him, that way neither of you gets hurt.
2007-03-26 07:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been down that road many times. There is no right way to solve this problem. I do know this, if they start dating, it will eat you up alive. You will watch them be so happy together and will be wishing it was you or constantly playing the "What If" game in your head. If they break up and you go after him, it will ruin a lot of friendships. Bottom line is this. If you like the boy and are not with him yet, chances are you probably never will be. He thinks of you as only a friend. Maybe you should clear things up with him first. Ask him if he ever thought about what would happen if you two got together. His response or look on his face will tell all. If he is agreeing to be set up with your friend, then he doesn't want to be with you. Do what your heart tells you to do. You only live once. Good luck.
2007-03-26 14:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by LISA F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you hooking them up? did you say you would before you realized you liked the guy? you should tell your friend that you also like this guy before you do anything. you can't help how you feel, but you can help what you do about it. she might decide she doesn't like him as much as you do, or who knows, but don't let a boy mess up your friendship.
2007-03-26 14:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by sym pathetic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever expressed their feelings first is the one that should go after him. Boys come and go friends are forever!
2007-03-26 14:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want. In the end it's your choice.
2007-03-26 14:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You loose.
2007-03-26 14:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Amy Beware 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be selfish :)
2007-03-26 14:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by bigrapster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋