I have the In-laws in my home they dont butt into our lives but if they have a problem with something they will show it through their actions i can ask them to leave because i know what there situation is but i would like to say something what do you guys think
2007-03-26 07:33:23 · 14 answers · asked by colochi79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you have every right to say something. This is your home, even though you want to show respect simply because they are family, does not mean that they can disregard how you run your home. After all, it is YOUR home and they are guests. I would certainly put a lot of though into what ever it is that you have to say, before you say anything at all. Let them know that you mean no disrespect...but that you are an adult and this is your home and you don't feel it is necessary for them to act out in such a way.
Keep in mind that this is coming from some one who has never had to have the in-laws stay over night. My mother-in-law is sweet, but we do not see everything eye to eye. If she were in my home and was behaving in a way that was less than comfortable, I would have to speak my mind so that I would not harbor resentment.....of course in the most respectful way possible. I would expect the same from my husband if it were the other way around.
2007-03-26 07:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your own home but if they are your inlaws your whife/husband should talk to them instead of you because if you say something (even if it's your right) they can think you want to be mean or whatever and that can cause trouble later such a: they not wanting to visit you, talk behind your back, making you feel bad in the future etc) so avoid the drama and let the other handle the situation.
2007-03-26 08:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they are respectful about showing their disagreement with something you do. People are entitled to different opinions. You have the right to say something, but show them an amount of respect equal to what they show you. If they start cussing you or doing outrageous things to show dissent, the gloves come off, buddy. Being respectful doesn't mean being a doormat.
2007-03-26 07:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might b in law but they r ur parents also! y not u guys think them own ?n aspect us to behave gud to ur parents?
sweet heart just relax say what u feel to them but say as if u r talking to ur oarents,m sure that the soft tone will come naturally.
2007-03-26 07:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and be respectful because they are your wife/husbands parents. They are in your house also and need to respect you. Just be nice, honest, respectable and the situation will work out.
2007-03-26 07:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by southern_bellechick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if their in your house you have the right to say what ever you want. if you don't like the way their treating hospitality then let them know its better to let it out then hold it in. best of luck
2007-03-26 07:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by me & you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunely, you can't say anything, that belongs to your wife/husband, 'cause, is her/his family; talk to his/her and tell what you feel, and you want to take action about that.
Good Luck!!!!
2007-03-26 07:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by claudetteeps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your home, say something or have your husband say something.
2007-03-26 07:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your home you should be able to speak your mind.
2007-03-26 08:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should say something, but be sure to say it in a calm, loving tone. hopefully, they will understand.
2007-03-26 07:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋