2007-03-26 07:16:39 · 16 answers · asked by rachna 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You still have some time to decide. Don't rush. I'm 10 weeks pregnant and I was scared to death when i found out. I didn't even believe in abortion but i still thought of it. A lot of people do with an unplanned pregnancy whether they admit or not.
Don't take pressure from anyone. It's your choice and you are going to be the one it affects most. No matter what you decide to do, think about it a lot and weigh all the options and consequences. If you decide to go for the abortion, do it before 12 weeks. Good luck.
2007-03-26 07:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Freaked out 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can abort it and it is your choice. I had also considered this due to family pressures and being scared to be a single parent even though I don't believe in it. I researched it and relized I could never do that. I have 2 beautiful girls and am married now. Some women have horrible experiences with abortion. They can't have kids now or it can really change you as a person generally not in a good way. I know a few people who had an abortion and they just aren't the same. They aren't as happy and they regret it. You should research it as much as possible before doing it. You could do adoption. There are so many kinds of adoption out there and so many wonderful people who want kids and can't have there own. I know someone who wants kids so badly but can't have there own. If it is medical bills you are worried about some couples are more than willing to help pay for that or you can get medical from the state. When you feel that baby kicking inside you it will make you want to have kids. It is an amazing feeling. Someone else left a website with pictures of people who had abortions. If you haven't yet looked at the site I definately would take a look if I was you. Just so you know that the baby in you is living and has a heart beat. Please just really think about all your options before doing anything. It is up to you and no one else. Another thing for you is that my friend got pregnant and also considered abortion. She talked to me because she knew what I went through when I first got pregnant. I told her everything I told you. She ended keeping the baby and not doing abortion. She was very happy that she decided to keep the baby. He ended up being her whole world. She couldn't believe you could love someone so much. The sad thing about her story is that her baby passed away from SIDS when he wasn't even two months old. Even after what she went through she was still very happy with her choice and to be able to experience having her baby. She wants more children now. She used to not want kids before she had her little boy.
2007-03-26 16:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by little_ro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a better suggestion (in my opinion) there are a lot of couples out there who want a baby but can't have one, you could put your baby up for adoption and the couple could be chosen even before it's born. I'm not judging you i just think it's selfish to have an abortion for the baby's sake first of all and also for the people out there who could benefit from this.
2007-03-28 17:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by cagirl1214 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could, but I wouldn't suggest it. There are so many things that could go wrong and why would you want to end someone's life before they even have a chance to live it? Someone passed this website on last week, and I want to share it with you....
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-photos.html
The pictures are very grafic, but I think that someone in your shoes, thinking about doing this needs to see them before you go ahead and do it. Honey, anyway you look at it abortion is ending a babies life. There are many couples out there hurting every day because they are unable to create the very life you are trying to end! I know the next 7 months would be difficult for you, but not as difficult as the rest of your life if you were going to go through with this. Adoption is a loving choice, and allows that baby the chance to live! Keeps you healthy and able to have children in the future, and doesn't cause regret the rest of your life!
2007-03-26 14:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by AdoptiveMama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you can (as long as it's legal where you live), but can I make a suggestion? What about adoption? When I was 18 I never wanted kids EVER! I ended up getting pregnant and gave him up for adoption, and after that moment, I knew that there was no way I could live my life without having a child of my own. I don't regret giving up my son, but I'm very happy I had that experience. It helped me grow as a person. Now I'm (almost) 23 and my boyfriend and I are extatic to be welcoming our new baby girl in May.
2007-03-26 14:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by parkerpixy84 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends upon were you live. There are other options to consider though, my husband and I have been trying to conceive for over a year. If we still cant by the end of this year, we will be looking for someone just like you who is pregnant but doesn't want her baby so we could adopt him or her. I know there are thousands of other loving couples out there just like us who are ready to adopt, so you may want to look into something like that.
2007-03-26 14:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you still have time to abort the baby.
2007-03-30 13:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by BellaRay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. you can abort up to 20 weeks
2007-03-26 15:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by lil'mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think your position as a woman that pregnant without husband. Will you abort it?
If you abort it, then you have just kill Jesus
Sometimes, a kid have their role in his/her life that we didn't know what is it. If you trying to abort it then that's mean that you just care about yourself.
2007-03-26 14:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Seth 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends on whta state your in Florida allows you to abort up to six and a half or seven months it also depends on what method your going with 2 good luck!!!
2007-03-26 14:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by lilrazzeldazzel37 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋