if you fancy a boy and ur shy of each other and dont talk to each other much and the guy knows u fancy him how do you know if he fancies you back coz im really afraid to ask him out and all my mates keep on telling me to move on and some of his mates even embarrass me in front of him. once when his mate came up to me in front of him he said you and him are never meant to be i dunno wether he heard it or not but i looked at him smiling and he smiled back but he looked a bit embarrssed coz he was turning a bit red. all my friend tell me to move on apparaantly mny friend asked him if he fancied me and he said no not really and apparantly my mate said he going to ask a girl out but she lies to evryone that girl. and when he came round my house coz my dad invited him and his parents over i couldnt talk to him at all and he didnt talk to me but he did smile at me and he also said bye thatz. but i dunno what to do i dont make first moves thats the problem do u think he likes/fancies me?
2007-03-26 06:56:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thats a big question. My best advice is to ask him out, swallow your shyness and ask him when his friends aren't there. but be prepared, if his friends already dont' like you, you might have a hard time of it. but if he rejects you then you will at least know and can move on if he does.
2007-03-26 07:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by nemsethcszardescu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say whether or not he's into you, but this network of people that are involved and know about this crush of yours amd telling him about it is not working to your benefit. If all of these people are approaching him and telling him about your interest and joking around about it, it is not good. For now, you need to back off and stop people from talking about it. You need to play things a little cooler. He probably feels totally overwhelmed by all the publicity. Even if he were interested right now, he might not do anything about it because so many people are involved.
Bottom line: stop talking about him to people other than your closest friends (who you trust not to talk to anyone about what you say) and give him some space.
2007-03-26 07:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by fleurhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The situation that you are involved in is still a little bit fuzzy. You could ask him out to lunch or out for coffee and see how it goes. Take your time getting to know him and don't make yourself look desperate. If you do that, he will run. Don't get your friends involved either because when it comes to personal relationships, you don't want anyone to be all up in your business. Ask him out without telling your friends. Do what you think is comfortable and best for you. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-03-26 07:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's still kind of blurry if you ask me. Why not ask him out for a coffee sometime or if you still feel shy asking him out, why not give him some peptalks if you see him like "Howau doin?" or whatever so then you'll feel a little bit ease when you ask him out.
2007-03-26 07:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Chicken Noodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ii cant tell... thats too confusin of a story lol... but it sounds lyk he mite
2007-03-26 07:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don`t do it!
2007-03-26 07:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋