me and my fiance we've been together for 3 weeks trying to get her pregnant , so out of 3 weeks everyday we

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made love , in the end she didn't get pregnant , she was telling me we should've "been together" from 3 on 3 days , why not daily, is my "seed " not mature enough if daily ???Thank-you .

Answer 1

I do not believe that having sex everyday has anything to do with it. When trying to conceive, you are told to have sex at least every other day. Your sperm can live inside her for 2-3 days. My guess is if you have only been trying for 3 weeks, she may not have ovulated yet. Different women ovulate at different times, sometimes not even once a month. She should try to chart her basal body temperatures or buy an ovulation prediction kit (they are not too expensive). This can tell her exactly when she is ovulating, if she is at all. And the most important tip is to BE PATIENT. We have been trying to get pregnant for 2 years. Even the most fertile women can take a year to conceive. Good Luck! I will be praying for you all.

Answer 2

What docs say is the best "schedule" for trying to get pregnant is, while she's ovulating, to have sex every other day. This is to make sure that your sperm have enough time to "re-stock" (if you know what I mean) between love-making sessions. You want as many sperm as possible, and it's better to have more sperm at once than less sperm over a few sessions. It's like closing your eyes and shooting at a tree from far away: will you have a better chance of hitting the tree if you use a shotgun once a day, every day, or if you get a machine gun and go all out a few times a week? Your girlfriend just has one egg each month (like the one tree), and it's ready the whole time that she's ovulating. But men's sperm have to re-grow after each time they ejaculate (like reloading a gun), so your body needs a day to be fully loaded. :) Just make sure your fiance knows for sure when she's ovulating, because that will make your chances of conception much higher. She'll be ovulating for about one week out of every month--on the other days, make love as often as you want to, but your chances of getting pregnant are much lower. There are kits your fiance can buy to help her know when she's ovulating--they measure the hormones levels in her body. Ovulation will begin sometime around 2 weeks before her period begins.

Good luck!

Answer 3

You guys arn't even married yet, not only that you two have only been engaged for 3 weeks am i correct???Why are you guys in a hurry? Why not wait until you guys have married a year at least, that would give you two time alone, time to worry bout nothing but eachother and have fun getting to know eachother befor bringing another life into this world...Think about it once she has gaven birth to the child you two should be newlyweds and that would mean instead of caring for eachother and sharing your time alone you will have another one to care about that means you two wouldn't be able to just go off and do whatever you want, you will never get alone time, all the expenses, stress ect that is going to be very very hard on your marriage and relationship..Keep in mind for some couples, if you don't give it time and rush things to quickly it can very well ruine a wonderful relationship/marriage..
but it's your guys choice and whatever you two agree on it's your life and you two know what you want..
It is best that you have sex every other day to improve the quality, quanity of the sperm...

Answer 4

My Dr. recommends having sex every other day beginning the 10th day of my cycle until I get my period. That leaves little room for error. But don't get discouraged if it doesn't happen right away, even the healthiest of couples have only a 25% chance of conceiving each cycle. Good luck!

Answer 5

She is right. there are only a few days in the month when she can get pregnant so the rest of the time you are just bonking for fun... Usually 8 days after her period. Stop ******* and hopefully within a couple of months you will be there..

Answer 6

Wow. First issues first. do not blame your self. So what if the hormones have been taking up. They do this. a real guy has to assume it and be arranged for it. Your guy is proving himself to be a cowardice. not in basic terms is he walking out on you, he's walking out on his toddler. This guy is to not be respected. settle for the certainty that this fool is walking out. not greater asking him to come back back or proving to him which you attempt to alter. additionally, don't have intercourse with him anymore, it rather is going to in basic terms make concerns worse. you do not choose to be his handy intercourse companion. Heartbroken as you're, i'm rather sorry for what you're dealing with. submit to in techniques, it is HIS loss, not yours. count variety your advantages that he's walking out now instead of later. carry your head up extreme and collect all the self appreciate and dignity you will get. you're nicely worth greater to your self than he's to you.

Answer 7

This guy is a liar and has posted on this name and another name. Every question he has contradicts the other. He states in another question that he wants to get a friend of his pregnant in CHINA. He cannot even piece a sentence together. DO NOT TRUST

Answer 8

You actually diminish your sperm count by having sex everyday. Every other day would be better it gives your little soldiers a chance to re-cooperate. If you want to make it even easier have her buy an ovulation predictor kit. This will help her determine her fertile days then you guys will know exactly when to do it.
Have fun trying though.

Answer 9

I guess to let you produce more sperm at once so then that one time would have a larger chance rather than multiple times of just a small amount...just a thought.

Answer 10

You should make love every other day and at least 2 days before she ovulates. It is too late if you two wait until the day she ovulates. The sperm count does decrease with each ejaculation. That is why it is better to go every other day. Good luck to you and your fiance.