K my ex fiance and I still talk, through texting and through myspace on occasion, I go to her profile sometimes and I'll leave a comment, and sometimes i'll even changed the stuff on my page along with her's. She say's i'm stalking her, and so do her friends. she texted me today and said that her and her friends were worried that i'm going to do somthing to her, because i changed my myspace profile around. and I went to the local goth bar the same night she had plans to go. Needless to say the argument got pretty heated... why the hell does she care so much? she's got a new boy toy, i havent seen her in a month... what the hell is her problem?
2007-03-26 06:32:01 · 14 answers · asked by Deformation Age 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
some girls think there the center of the universe and everyones actions are directly effected by her actions. She sounds like one of those girls
2007-03-26 06:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She cares because you guys moved on and talk every once in awhile and all of a sudden you are copying things from her Myspace page, you are ending up at the sames places that she is (even though you may not have planned it that). If you were in her shoes how would you feel? If I were you I would back down from sending her messages and take a break. I am sure that you can find someone that you can have a relationship with and leave your ex to her new boy toy.
If you talk with her again let her know that you are not stalking her and you are moving on and you wish her the best in life.
Good luck
2007-03-26 13:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Important 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I'm a semi-professional player. I love women, I understand your pain. Don't know if you heard this already, a girl came home from college, the old boy friend who'd refused to give-up on her killed her. Then, he cut her up, and then bar b-qued her on the grill. There is not enough love in the world to do stupid things to someone you're suppose to care for, right?
You might thing it is funny, but not to her. She could turn the table on you, women can be crazy-violent, too.
Is this stalking? It might not be to you. I don't know. But if your ex-girlfriend has heard stories like the one above, and you are acting anywhere close to the above (think about how you are acting here) that seems strange to others, and you are acting like you are, then you need to get over this woman or whatever it is to you.
There is to much other stuff out there for you to get next too. Don't make this woman go have a restraining order put in place against you. It is not worth your time having the cops or dectives at your door if something happens to her and it is not your fault.
Man, be smart, find you some new pu&&y to stick. It is better than going to jail or being listed as a sex offender....
Be a real man, tell her its been nice, have a nice nice life, and move the hell on to new bait....
2007-03-26 13:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by lastyear53 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your actions are making her uncomfortable, you need to stop. No more texting, no more Myspace comments, no more "coincidental" meetings. It sounds like you want to get back together, but it's obvious she doesn't. Therefore, let it go. I don't quite know what you mean by changing your profile around to fit hers, but it sounds kinda creepy. Discontinue all contact with her unless you want this to get messier.
2007-03-26 13:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Katiecat 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to her, don't text her, don't visit her myspace. If you see her, see her as a stranger. You don't want to be mixed up in something that can cause you a problem with the law and/or give you a headache.
2007-03-26 13:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by ami 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you go out of your way to change your profile to be similar to hers? It's apparently okay for that to mean something to you, but it's not okay for it to bug her? Why the double standard?
Keeping in touch is okay, but if it's causing her to be uncomfortable then why not respect that and back off? If you like her enough to maintain some level of friendship then as a friend one would think you'd respect their comfort level and desires pertaining to how you treat them.
It's apparent you are jealous of her new guy by the way you referred to him...perhaps you need to spend some time evaluating your feelings for her and why you are behaving as you are. There are issues there you need to resolve.
2007-03-26 13:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to coordinate profiles with her?? Be yourself and get over her she obviously dosent want anything to do with you anymore. She has moved on. Im sure you are just bothering her to the point that it irritates her. Move on with your life and stay out of hers.
2007-03-26 13:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by ByouTfull 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone. You may not be stalking her, but it appears to her & her friends that you are. Forge on, find a new girl and forget about this one.
2007-03-26 13:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i take it she ended the relationship, let her go, doesnt sound to me like your "stalking " her , but it does sound like shes made it clear, the relationship, is over, move on, its not worth the headache.
2007-03-26 13:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by imamom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The problem is she cannot get over you!Try hanging out with some of mix gender of friends.
2007-03-26 13:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋