is it?
2007-03-26 06:23:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes it is. A man can find another man attractive without there being any awkwardness. In fact, I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that ALL men think of other guys as attractive. The thing is that most men do not confess that they think an individual man is attractive because of the whole "gay" undertone. It's ridiculous. Finding a man attractive doesn't make you gay. Wanting to have sex with another man does. Even then there shouldn't be a problem.
2007-03-26 07:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by tauro5484 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal for anyone to find anything "attractive".
Take men who are commonly accepted as being attractive; Brad Pit, George Clooney, etc. A male can say "Yep, those are attractive men."
But the difference (and your underlying question I assume) is in whether or not you're actually attracted to them. Finding something attractive just means you like the way something looks. Heterosexual men (and women) can find a member of the opposite sex attractive but still not be attracted to them. Say for example, someone is physically beautiful, but has a bad personality, would you be attracted to this person? Probably not, but you could still find them attractive (i.e. physically appealing). You could also use the example of cars. I like the way certain pickup trucks look, but that doesn't mean I'm going to go right out and buy a truck...
2007-03-26 07:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by dbmartin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Certainly is normal within my life experience. I find few guys attractive; most are downright slobs and unsavory. But, every once and a while i see one that I find attractive. My attraction does lead to fantasy at times, so perhaps I'm bi.
Same is true for women. THere are few I find attractive, and I do indulge in fantasy with them as well.
Taking action on the attraction, however, is a whole different matter. Harder to do for any number of reasons.
2007-03-26 11:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Victor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! We see other people all the time and some are attractive to us for various reasons. I think that men who have a little stubble on their face are attractive. I'm not gay so I let my own beard grow a little. I like how it looks.
It is high time that men can tell other men that they are attractive without any other connotation attached. If you are gay or bisexual, then that answers your question. If you are heterosexual then you are just a well-adjusted human being (congratulations!)
In either case, tell the person that they are "looking sharp" or whatever.....we all need to hear it once in a while.
2007-03-26 06:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Deeken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No men don,t look at other men and say your beautiful not that there are not men who look better than others I will tell you something that happen to me I have a friend who always had some beautiful girlfriends and I could not see how he got them well one day he telles me he is going to New York to be a modle I said right well two years later he is one of the top black male modles in the world his real name is Peter George but he goes by the name of Note/ and Istill don,t see how he made it men just don,t look at each other like that in less a lot of women keep on telling us your friend is hot we will never see it because mostt men think that we are the best looking guy in the world
2007-03-26 07:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say for the majority of guys, no. Some may classify other guys as better or worse looking, but most are not attracted to other guys.
2007-03-26 06:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Totally normal, and not gay...unless you wake up next to a guy you consider attractive the next morning.
2007-03-26 07:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by cardinalboy97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But why should you think it is not ? If you think a guy is attractive you should say so and be happy you are where you feel you should be in life. Be happy about it, not questioning and sad. Enjoy you only live once.
2007-03-26 06:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's an interesting point.
why is it that women can comment on whether another woman is attractive or not and it means nothing, but when a guy is asked if he thinks another guy is attractive then often he reacts by saying something like "i'm not gay".
i don't get this. i think you can comment on whether another person is attractive or not, regardless of their sex, and it doesn't automatically determine your sexual preference.
2007-03-26 06:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by kittycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychologically talking Yes!But not every man accept that.Saying other man is attractive doesn't mean you want to have sex with them.
2007-03-30 03:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋