he claims he loves me and always will and will always have a place for mr in his heart and we have seen psycics and they say we will be together. does this mean we will be together in the future?
2007-03-26 05:54:38 · 12 answers · asked by sweetiepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know that when we as women or men have low self esteem we put up with so much S*it from the other person.....
What I am about to say is going to sound bad, but I am so tired of people stepping on our feeling and with one word they think they could make us feel better............
This so called Man May love u, but he is not IN LOVE WITH U!!!! U need to get that in ur head first.... If he was in LOVE with U he would not be acting this way with U!!!!!!!
He is just playing the field or a so called player.... He doesn't know what he wants in his life....This is why he tell u THAT HE WILL ALWAYS LOVE U!!!!!!
Yes u have a small place in his pathetic heart that is bcz u put up with so much of his crap.. He knows that with one word one smile one call or any small jester he has u in the palm of his hand.....
U needs to stop that.... Do u really want to live like this????
R u willing to put up with this the rest of ur life?????????
R u going to wait for him after he used u???????????????
What r u going to stop after he gives u a STD??????
Come on now u r worth more that what u give ur self credit for......He is not worth ur time.... Life is to short to b thinking about some one who DOES NOT CARE ABOUT U!!!!!!!!!
U need to put ur self 1st u r #1... U need to remember that!!!!!!!!!
Get up from this Yes it will take Time it is a very long and hard it cans b done if u really want it, But I rather u spend this time on U than on him..... Go see a counselor Find ur self see what it is that u r lacking.. If U don’t Help ur self who will.. He won't He is not going to.....He has someone else he will always have some one........
Stop waiting for him to change.... U r the one that need to change.... There is so much more to life than what u have made of it, YES U have made it like this every time u take him back.... U needed to start RESPCETING ur self so other cans RESPCET u!!!! U r not any one second had plate....
God did not put u in this world for u to let people walk all over u!!!!!!!!!!!!! Let God show u the way PRAY..... Let his will place u were u r to b he know better than us.....
I hope U takes this in consideration cz in the end u will do what is best for u.
I wish u the best......
2007-03-26 07:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Natural 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put your faith in your own good common sense and the fact that past performance is the best indicator of future performance. This man is shopping for a woman like most of us shop for groceries. If he knows you are so wonderful and that you were meant for each other, there would be no more shopping going on. He tells you what you want to hear, he uses you, and then wanders off for the next shopping expedition knowing that you have put your life on hold and will welcome him back with open arms. Wise up, move on, forget this jerk and find someone who is open and available to you and what you seek in life. This guy is not the one.
2007-03-26 06:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by curious74432 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your rowing up stream in a leaky boat with one 1/2 of one oar. He's left you twice and you think your going to get together, and possibly married? I have some swamp property I'm looking to sell. You'd have better luck draining this property with a straw and selling for a profit, than you would being happy with this loser. Use your time to find someone that will commit to you, not just supply you with empty promises.
2007-03-26 06:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have learned by now. There was a sign at my work place that stated "Anyone is liable to make mistakes; only fools make the same mistake twice. Don't be a fool." He may love you in some strange way but if he's left you twice, leave him alone.
2007-03-26 06:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't he come back if he has a place with you? I mean human behavior dictates you will do what you can get away with.
If he leaves and gets misc. action he knows he has someone to fall back on if it does not work out, why not do that.
This problem lies with you taking him back, not with him leaving and coming back.
Did you ever hear the phrase "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me."
You have been fooled, time to stop the madness!
2007-03-26 06:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Steffi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste another second of your precious time on this guy. You deserve to be #1 in a man's life. Psychics are giving a bunch of bull to get your money. Dump him & MOVE ON.
2007-03-26 06:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by napqueen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
physics???? LOL!
JoyDivision's answer suks big time, by the way, because the most so-called beautiful women in the world get cheated on and divorced from all the time......two words JoyDivision- Halle Berry......I rest my case.
Looks might attract a man, but looks alone don't keep him!
2007-03-26 05:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in the mirror....weight!. Make up? Hair? when was the last time you gave him O to completion..or A or outdoor stuff, or dressed to impress...how is the body looking.done pelvic floot exercises recently.......happy dogs do not stray...either do everything for him.or thousands of women will do it for you.....
2007-03-26 06:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
surely ... you sound depressed and that i propose zoloft or prozac. also your rigidity is so profound you doubt his love for you ... so I propose speaking on your well being care specialist about a xanax prescription. The question is ... do you ... love your self?
2016-12-02 20:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by luci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice B.S question!
2007-03-26 06:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋