embarrassing question, no matter how much practice doing it and read how to do it with my wife she hates it. Is it that im terrible or its possible that she just really doesnt like it. Its hard to believe since as a man I never heard of it the other way around. Shes not insecure about herself at all she just says she hates it but everything else we do is wonderful.
2007-03-26 05:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she doesnt like it she just doesnt like it. It isnt for everyone. If everything else in your sex life is good, then dont worry about it. Some women just arent into it, and there isnt anything wrong with that.
Its fine and everything, but not something that i would say i need on a daily basis.
2007-03-26 05:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes some girls do not like it... I think the reason lies more in the insecurity aspect of it, instead of the feeling.
Some women are insecure about their bodies and their private areas, the way they look, probably taste, etc. Since the man is up close and personal, I can see where insecurity intervenes.
She should however try and do something to get over that, she really is missing out... Maybe there are things you can do to make her less insecure. If that is the problem...
2007-03-26 12:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Steffi 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Some women just prefer not to do it. This might be a good sign. She is probably getting enough enjoyment from the things that you do together that she doesn't need that. She must really dig being with you , if you know what I mean.
2007-03-26 13:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Let her be direct and tell her why she doesn't like it. It can be a mental thing or physical sensation she doesn't like.
Many women can be ultra sensitive in that area where cunnilingus can be uncomfortable or she may feel obligated to return the favor and doesn't like doing that to name a few reasons.
You both should talk about it.
Good luck.
2007-03-26 12:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If all else is well, then I wouldn't worry about it. If she says it's just not for her then I would believe her.
2007-03-26 12:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Dino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love it. As a rule I don't blow him till he goes down on me and gives me a darn good licking.
2007-03-26 13:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Everyone is different....possibly u have not learned what she considers enjoyable.
2007-03-26 12:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In real life we love it.but on here? there are soo many repressed, puritan religious and frigid individuals that some may say no. But.on the HOLE..we love it...work on that technique!
2007-03-26 12:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
When it comes to what people like and don't like when having sex it's individual.
Listen to what she says....that's the bottom line.
2007-03-26 12:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are doing it wrong. i really love it when it is done right.
2007-03-26 12:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by red1967 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋