Wow so I hung out w/my guy best friend who's my bestest friend ever...of all time and he told me that when we were in 7th grade...he had a crush on me (nothing unusual. It happens to every guy/girl best friends) and I admitted to him that in 8th grade I had a crush on him but neither of us ever did anything cuz we're bestest friends & he would have a girlfriend, I would have a boyfriend...the usual right?! Right. So anywho, this weekend we hung out and I think he wants to pursue something. I think he still likes me. He didn't tell me but I just feel it...you know when you get that feeling. We acted the same but there was something different. He tried to kiss me w/out trying. It was weird. Now my issue...I don't know if I like him too. I don't know whether I should pursue anything or not. I don't know if I should bring it up cuz what if he doesn't like me & it was all in my head (WHich I truly doubt!). He's the one guy I never thought this happen with. I love him...like my brother. HELP
2007-03-26 05:44:00 · 2 answers · asked by batchick5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well,...one thing is I think a guy is in a state of mind that if you listen and help a girl with all the problems in life...then that is a relationship. It is really hard to have a platonic relationship if it is not equal. Both people have to come forward with what they want out of the friendship....if it is more than friendship it must be let out in the open. I had alot of friends that were women...most married that wanted more and I was trying to be a friend not something else. But it was better off finding out they wanted more because now at least I know and watch more of what I say and do.
Like I say the more honesty and respect is out in the open the better it is. If it causes problems than so be it.
2007-03-26 11:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by halfshy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I 'am with u
I totally understand.
I hav 1 thing 2 tell u
"follow ur heart"
Good luck
2007-03-26 06:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by madstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋