In the sex, or foreplay department, What do you wish your husband knew, or do, or not do?
2007-03-26 05:39:28 · 19 answers · asked by tom t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wish he understood foreplay begins as soon as the sex ends. It's a circle of commutation and trust. Foreplay is the relationship and trust between the two of us. The best sex we have is when we are getting along before we have it. The intimacy is much higher then and it allows your mind to take you were you need to be taken. Make-up sex is great and all, but nothing compares to the sex you can have with someone you completely trust and love more then anything or anyone.
Always doing nice and thoughtful things for another is the best foreplay. Surprising each other with romantic gifts, notes, flowers, expressions always keeps me in the mood. And I think that is the real trick. Keeping in the mood. If you never leave the state of desire and passion then it's a lot easier to fall into on a whim or the perfect moment.
When it is hard and the closeness has disappeared for while- the best way to get it back is to be good to one another. Love one another.
And when all else fails.......wine. Drink lots of wine. Works like a charm.
2007-03-26 05:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, romance me.
Remember when you first started dating and you said all the right things? Do you remember how much effort you put into sex?
For me, if my husband treats me as though he "has" to have me, it is a huge turn on. Of course if you've been married for awhile, there is no better foreplay than a guy who hears his wife's needs in and out of the bedroom. It's a joke with me and my girlfriends that the biggest turn on for a woman is a man cleaning! Ha ha
Have a good one.
2007-03-26 05:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mary A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pretty open about things of that nature, so if I have an issue I state it immediately. I really have no complaints... That is not because I did not have them previously, but because I tell him what they are right away. I like sex to much to be disappointed.
However instead of barking orders like a drill Sargent (which I doubt would be attractive), I suggest things. Pick up Cosmo and just do the tricks you find in there just to see if you find anything new... or say you read an article on something like oral sex and you want to see what the hype is about so can you guys try a different way... that way there are no hurt feelings involved...
2007-03-26 05:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Steffi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really like this question... I wish my husband would be a little rougher with me. Also he isn't really into foreplay, he just jumps right into the main act. It's kind of annoying. I am always willing to give him pleasure, but he is less likely to do the same for me. I also wish that he would be more spontaneous. (sp??)
2007-03-26 05:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i love making love wth my husband.
BUT... some times i feel like he just "gets his" and doesnt give me a chance...
let me remind you, that it takes a women 12-15 minutes to "get hers" and sometimes he is just too quick...
he just sometimes does not try...
and you know there are times that he is great...
i love that he tries different things every time. we start him on top or me, and then from behind or me legs on his shoulders.. you gotta switch it up. it can not be boring.
I wish my husband knew that i like foreplay a lot and would like him to take more time in that department. just as much as he likes it. and what i wish he didnt do was be so quick.
2007-03-26 05:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jdez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be great if he found out what foreplay is. Not being funny but grabbing a boob giving it a squeeze really isn't what gets me going :-)
I think that if he was a bit more dominant, took his time and teased me a bit I'd be a very happy woman
2007-03-26 05:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by maidmaz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wish my husband would be more freaky in bed. Other than that I really enjoy sex with my husband.
2007-03-27 15:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Too many times when you ask a woman what she likes, she say "I like everything" and you never get the real answer. I am curious to see what the ladies will say
2007-03-26 05:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish he didn't rub so hard like he was scrubbing his car or something, i'm delicate. I also would like him to have better verbal skills in bed.
2007-03-26 05:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Paradiddle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
pay some attention to what is turning me on - right now its all about him getting his rocks off - when he's done, its done - regardless of where abouts my desire is. There are many times that he comes before me and leaves me totally unsatisfied. grrrrr
2007-03-26 06:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋