can anyone help?

Question

me and my partner have been trying for a baby for 1yr now but we just dont seem to be getting anywhere can someone let me no wat to do or how wecan get help thnx

Answer 1

go to the doc, hell carry out sum tests, bloods, smear for female and sperm count for fella and take it from there. dont worry to much tho. we were trying for 4 years before i fell pregnant. i now have a beautiful 15 month baby boy. but yeah we went to docs they did tests n stuff and then we decided to get married so was really wrapped up in that and put gettin preg to te back of my mind fore a while. a week later got a referal letter to the urologist for my husband as he had low sperm count and then a week later had to phone up to cancell as i found out was preg. any way i would suggest takin the first step by goin to docs find out if there are ne reasons y u havent concieved. gud luk

Answer 2

My first suggestion would be for a couple to chart the woman's fertility signs. Many times, the reason for a delay in conceiving is due to timing. So many couples are still under the impression that ovulation always happens around Day 14 or that it always happens 14 days from the next period (as calculated using your previous cycles). Even if the woman has a "textbook" cycle of 28 days, there is NO guarantee that ovulation occurs around Day 14 or that other aspects of the cycle are "right" for conceiving and carrying a pregnancy. A woman's fertility cycle can be very sensitive, but it's pretty easy to detect and solve cycle issues at home.

Some sources for charting fertility signs: The books The Art of Natural Family Planning and Taking Charge of Your Fertility. The websites CCLI.org, Ovusoft.com, and Fertilityfriend.com

Also, I'd recommend both of you double checking your diets. You need to make sure you are getting a balanced, healthy and preferably organic diet. Nutritional defecits can cause many cycle problem, even a state of infertility. Both the man and the woman should pay atttenion to what they are putting in their bodies. Vitamin supplements should be used as needed. Be aware that some foods (like soy) may cause cycle problems too and might need to be avoided while trying to conceive.

Answer 3

After one year of trying to concieve you should be seeking proffesional advice not yahoo advice.You are now elegiable for fertility tests to check everything is okay and a doctor who knows you and your history who you can have a one to one talk with can give you much better tips than anyone here will.I have listed below the information i know
Try to keep sex fun when you're trying to conceive. Use rooms other than the bedroom or schedule your babymaking rendezvous for an odd time of day. The rationale? You won't be able to keep up the babymaking pace for very long if sex starts feeling like a chore.
Don't hop up and run to the bathroom right after you make love. Lying down for at least a few minutes (some fertility experts say five minutes) after intercourse increases the odds that the sperm will be able to keep their date with the awaiting egg and that you'll win at baby roulette.
Make love often during your fertile period (the five days leading up to ovulation). If you've got the stamina to make love at least every 48 hours, you will ensure that there's a fresh shipment of sperm waiting in the fallopian tube at any given time. Of course, you can get too much of a good thing if your partner has a low sperm count, so if you're aware of a pre-existing fertility problem, you'll want to talk this issue over with your fertility specialist.
Keep in mind that babymaking is a numbers game. Even if you do everything "right," you still have only a 25% to 30% chance of conceiving in any given cycle.
Here's a bit of sex-related trivia, just in case you and your partner are looking for a little inspiration. There are over 114 million sex acts performed around the world.
Are you a coffee drinker? Time to give it up or switch to decaf! Caffeine is thought to restrict the growth of a developing baby by constricting blood vessels and reducing blood flow to the uterus. What's more, a few studies have indicated that excessive consumption of caffeine (that is, more than three cups of drip coffee per day) may contribute to fertility problems. The jury is still out on this last point, however.
Are you or your partner regularly exposed to hazardous substances in the workplace? You may need to consider a job change or job modification before you start your family. Certain substances can affect both the quality of sperm and the development of the embryo.
Are you currently taking any prescription or over-the-counter drugs? Be sure to ask your doctor if it's safe for you to continue taking them once you start trying to conceive.
If you aren't already doing so, start keeping a menstrual calendar. Note the date when your period starts, the number of days it lasts, and anything else your doctor might want to know about. This information could prove helpful if you experience problems in conceiving. It can also prove invaluable in pinpointing the date of conception -- and consequently your due date.
Try to book the last appointment of the day for your preconception checkup. That's when your doctor or midwife is most likely to be able to take the time to answer your questions and address your concerns without feeling rushed to go on to the next patient.
Make your vaginal environment as sperm-friendly as possible. Avoid vaginal sprays and scented tampons (which can cause a pH imbalance in your vagina); artificial lubricants, vegetable oils, and glycerin (because they can kill off sperm); saliva (because saliva can also kill sperm); and douching (because it alters the normal acidity of the vagina; can cause vaginal infections and/or pelvic inflammatory disease; and may wash away the cervical mucus that is needed to transport the sperm).
If you're monitoring your cervical mucus in an attempt to predict your most fertile days, do your checks before you shower, bathe, or swim. These activities can all affect the quantity and quality of your cervical mucus.

Answer 4

after me and my partner had been trying for over a year we went to see our gp who referred us to gynacology we are busy undergoing fertility treatment now as we both have problems. It can take a year for some people to conceive naturally have you been calculating ovulation? That can be a help. xxx

Answer 5

some human beings are thumbing down all of the answerers who say extraterrestrial beings have in no way visited the Earth in the previous. Sorry, besides the fact that that's the actual fact. in spite of if that's not impossible extraterrestrial beings do exist, there is not any info of them ever traveling Earth. the rest is purely wishfull questioning.

Answer 6

You have loads of time to get pregnant don't worry, If you have waited a year then you probably can't get pregnant so go to the GP and see what he can do.

Answer 7

You must see a gyn you & ur partner good luck

Answer 8

I think you should talk to your doctor maybe there is something going on that you don't know of. Or try to have sexual intercourse when your on your period or when you are going to get it. When your ovulating. But I mainly recommend to talk to your doctor just to be on the safe side. Best of Luck.

Answer 9

go to ur gyne/ob hun. he will b getting some tests done and c what is going on w.u..good luck

Answer 10

ur first port of call should b the Docs/MD/GP.
from there they should explain what help you may get.