I love to crossdress and be the wife in bed but the wifes not into it anymore - any ideas?
2007-03-26 05:34:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your wife is not interested anymore, then keep it out of the bedroom, respect her limits, or come to a compromise, where you can do it every now and again.
2007-03-26 08:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by JML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of trying to change your wife perhaps you should be the one to change.
After all you're the one who's out of the social norms.
I bet that your wife married you because of the man you were - - not for your crossdressing. I would also imagine that she would love and respect you more, if she knew that you were giving up crossdressing because you love her.
I know that your not going to find it to be a simple transition. However, never say that it is impossible. You can accomplish great things. You can take it one step at a time. Try wearing men's nylon pajamas to bed and wear some woman's undergarments underneath where it doesn't show. Then slowly reduce the use of the woman's undergarments. Men's nylon pajamas still have the silky feel that you've always enjoyed.
2007-03-28 13:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think the key to a dynamic like that in a relationship is working out what does and doesn't work for you (and her) in advance. If your sprung the crossdressing thing on her after you got married then your're kind of screwed. Some women enjoy that (believe it or not) but not everyone is open minded or into it enough to give you what you are looking for.
Good luck.
2007-03-26 09:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Donna DiaWana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 21:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Add something more to it. Tell her you want to dress up and have her tie you up. Add a new element to the same old, same old. Ask her to be the evil captor that will have her way with her helpless damsel in distress.
2007-03-26 05:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by tyemetght814 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have witnessed my cousin dressing up with my bras and panties. I started gifting him my unfit dresses. Nothing wrong have fun.
2007-03-26 06:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sumitha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is bored it seems. I suggest being the man all the way around and it will be okay.
2007-03-26 05:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shes jealous... you look better than her and everyone knows it.
2007-03-26 05:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Just A Newbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a great idea- be the man she married, that's what she expected you'd always be
2007-03-26 05:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
think you might need to find a new partner... :D
2007-03-26 05:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋