UK -3 years ago when my child was born, my b/f became very controlling towards me but only ref her. At 8 months i was exhausted and he agreed to take her to stay and give me a break (we were still together). I told him it was not a permanent arrangement but i still dont have her home (20 months). I have tried to take her home on a part time basis (joint care, which i see fair to the child), for nearly a year but which i have been continually put down, harrassed, bullied, and threatened! I finished the r/ship nov and contacted a sol ref my times to build my confidence again which he has been awkward and hostile and again putting me down! I have stood up to him on many occasions but it really pushes me to my limit! Since she has been born he seems very jealous of anyone being around her inc. grandma, her half bro, and a little of me altho this has intensified to such an unhealthy state that he storms off when she asks me to cuddle etc. Sorry so long...advice to stand up to him pls.
2007-03-26 05:30:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont work very well with controlling men...i have a history of it!...... prob why i always end up picking the b*******!
2007-03-26 05:31:36 · update #1
Just 2 add - he has no parental rights i have full but he keeps badgering me about signing. I said when i have my daughter home half the week then you will get your rights. Also he listens to nothing i say regarding her welfare.
2007-03-26 05:38:22 · update #2
go to see a solicitor immeidiately, he is wrong to do this to you, so you had a bad time when she was born there is a word for it, post natal depression and his controlling behaviour didnt help you then and its not helping you now, you have been more than fair with him and are willing to share the custody, any court in this land will grant you that please seek legal advice he has put you down so much aand bullied you so much.....no wonder your confidence is at an all time low. do it now that will boost your confidence just to know that you are fighting for the little girl you clearly love, good luck and hope you get your little one back soon
2007-03-26 05:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can always petition the court for full or shared custody...He is at least a fit parent...if so, then that is good
2007-03-26 12:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer
2007-03-26 12:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has no parental rights...its parental kidnapping.
2007-03-26 15:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋