I have a very good friend who's daughter and mine don't really get along well. They are very different kids with very different personalities and interests. Sometimes there is conflict between the girls, and my friend always blames my daughter-even though her daughter is just as much to blame as mine. I don't expect the girls to be friends, but they do have to tolerate each other. How would you deal with this situation?
2007-03-26 05:28:44 · 6 answers · asked by SyrahLvr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well to solve this problem...i believe as
mothers to your daughters its up to the two of
you to solve these fundamentals,,,
i would say that guidance.. in solving their insecurities
and insuring their future assets,,,is much more important
then personality...and friendship...
if anyone to blame...it is you mom...as they are under your
wings in their nest...there are no obstacles ..in flight
so teach them... too glide... there is only one road out
there... sure there are conflicts... but if you aim right..
they will earn their wings,,, on their own...into their
future life...had being You... whom will teach them
this assurance...security in their future..ABLE for life
2007-03-26 06:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are the children in question? This might be a good life lesson for your daughter, that she won't get along well with everyone she has to deal with. I would wonder why your friend feels the need to place blame on a child, when what I would do in that case is hear out both girls and try to make an objective judgement call for the individual situation. Before you get together with this very good friend and her daughter next time, set some ground rules. Let her know how you feel about what is happening.
2007-03-26 05:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come to terms with your friend. and make sure your daughter understands that this is not always her fault. some people just don't understand that there are other amazing people out there.
if your friend doesn't understand, and neither does her daughter- maybe you should just let go of the relationship for a while, wait until the kids are grown up and more mature.
because you are right, they must tolerate each other for the sake of a friendship between mothers!
maybe you could all go out for lunch or a day on the town- female bonding. i don't really know their personalities. try to find common ground between everyone, and make it a hobby everyone will enjoy. (shopping?)
2007-03-26 05:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up with people who thought their kids were perfect when they were far from that. I had some who were doing everything from drugs to having sex and they played a good part, but some parents seriously need to wake up and smell the coffee.
2007-03-26 05:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How previous is she now? Your chum sounds immature and is thoroughly incorrect for comparing her baby with yours. it variety of feels like she desires to apply her daughter to spice up her self-worth. She would not comprehend that her little woman sits for an prolonged time by way of fact of her inborn temperment. It has no longer something to do with what she does together with her. Your son feels like he's lively this is universal. i'd enable her recognize in a beneficial way which you do no longer think of it healthful for her to analyze the youngsters. tell her that its no longer effectual to you while she in ordinary terms sees the undesirable on your baby. Your son is unlike her daughter and heavily isn't. do no longer carry decrease back by way of fact she surely would not. Nip this contained in the butt before it gets out of hand.
2016-10-01 12:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time blame his kid first before he says anything
he will get the point
2007-03-26 05:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by taylor w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋