seriously this girl i know is really getting on my nerves.
i told her her words hurt. she said "well too bad". when i told her THAT was pretty rude, she said "you just realised that?"
i need advices, please. thank you for your time and answers.
2007-03-26 05:21:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do i really have to ditch her?
she's my friend.
2007-03-26 05:30:40 · update #1
but people tend to like her. she's gorgeous, i know.
but it's just that she always compares me with this other girl. and i'm getting fed up.
2007-03-26 05:34:29 · update #2
oh she just called me a b!tch, just fyi.
2007-03-27 05:01:25 · update #3
Just dont bother with her hon. People like that will only bring you down. You dont need people like that in your life. She will drain you of your energy to make herself feel bigger and better.. shes no friend. Put your energy towards good people and make good friends you're proud of and they will return the good feelings and you'll be a lot happier. I'm in the same situation and i've tolerated another girl for a while, she sounds similar to what you're dealing with. She never listens to me or what i'm feeling and can be selfish and very attention seeking. I have come to the decision that i need to leave her be, not be rude and block her out, but just to keep her at arms length.. not a close friend. Good luck!
2007-03-26 05:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly if she is that rude to u then she isn't ur friend. If u r in the choir, band, art etc. u should hang out with ur friends in those classes. Join a sport if u haven't already u can find that u can make friends pretty easily!If u have other friends that hang out with her and u don't want to stop being friends with them, Just let them stay there still hang out with them. But just not when they are around the person that is rude to u. Trust me once ur friends get a dose of the rude person's medicine they will take your side and leave her by herself.
2007-03-26 12:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Abby,,[[RAWR]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being friends with people like that girl. Friends are the most important in our life because they CARE FOR OUR FEELINGS, ARE ALWAYS THERE FOR US, AND NEVER HURT US IN ANY WAY.
Why is that rude girl your friend any way when she hurts your feelings , has no sympathy and never apologises instead makes furthur smarta** remarks to hurt you.
Find other friends and tell your rude friends:
"I don't want to have anything to do with you anymore and what makes you think you can be my friends when you are so mean. This is over and leave me alone.Dare you come to my house, you will only embarass yourself cause nor will I open the door and nor will I ever pick up the phone.I have had enough."
2007-03-26 12:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then she's not a friend, tell her to go f herself and leave.
I believe in being direct to nasty people, and sometimes you have to stoop to their level, therefore the "f yourself" comment.
I had a "friend" like that in high school, make plans, she wouldnt show up, always an excuse. Basically when I told her she wasnt a friend and I had no more time to waste on her, she cried but hey, lifes too short. Fast forward 10 years later, she sd that was the meanest but most honest thing anyone had ever said to her, and it made her a better person. Oh well, big deal. I still cant stand her.
2007-03-26 12:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is not my policy to be friends with rude people, so I have never had this problem. People can never hurt me with words because I know who I really am. I find if some one calls you something bad it is the very thing that they are thinking they are. Who says you ever have to acknowledge this girl ever again?
2007-03-26 12:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't even of given her the time by telling her that was rude...just ignore her or laugh at her, take time out to make FRIENDS!! ; ) do you have to be near her? I bet she's only like that when others are about..obviousley she's got issues thinking thats clever or funny..I'm sure she'll grow out of it or grow up! just don't show her that it bothers you if you do need to be around her!
try not to worry about it hun!
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sounds like you wanna be her friend because she's popular..that's the wrong way to go about it!!! I wouldn't be surprised that if you got on with others & blanked her she probably then would come to you & try & be friends again or RESPECT you!!
2007-03-26 12:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by Toby G* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
R U N!?! I don't see the need of having her as a "friend". Not only is she completley indifferent but she is verbally rude?...
Certain people are unecessary to have in ones life.
Take care, and success!
2007-03-26 12:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt waste your time with rude people since they are not considerate of you or anything about you. If this chick was your friend she wouldnt have treated you like this saying hurtful things. Find you some real friends who respect you.
2007-03-26 12:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude thats really messed up, and so inconsiderate of your feelings. Tell her that you can't have her being rude for no reason and disrespectin your feelings and your friendship. and if she doesn't stop your going to have to leave her. and do it. if she wont change then you really dont need friends like that love, there is plenty of people out there who will be a good friend to you so go find them!
2007-03-26 12:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Youll See 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most obvious solution is to stop associating with them until they go away. Failing that, take more drastic steps by defecating in a box and giving it to her as a present.
2007-03-26 12:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋