Slept with two different men, need to figure out what day my baby was conceived.
2007-03-26 05:17:57 · 25 answers · asked by prettylady 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I slept with those 2 men, november 24th and 25th, So those that mean IF I conceived around December 2nd or 3rd then it couldnt be the guy I slept with on the 25th right???
The guy I slept with on the 24th is the ONE I would like to be the father and yes we did have sex again around the 2nd or 3rd.....
2007-03-26 05:47:44 · update #1
There is no way. The only way you will be able to determine who the father is is to have a peternity test after the baby is born.
If I were to bet however I would say you probably conceived Dec 2nd or 3. Which is about 14 days after your period and when you are most fertile.
2007-03-26 05:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Well they will start counting your pregnancy from your last menstrual periods which you already know, so that is good. Add two weeks from November 19th, meaning you probably conceived between Dec 3rd and Dec 8th. This is so because your fertile days are usually between day 14-19 of your cycle. You could have even dad sex a couple days before day 14 since sperm can survive for a few days. This is only a rough estimate since every woman ovulates at a different time, but this is how your doctor would figure this. To get your due date you add 40 weeks to Nov 19th and that is Aug 26th.
If you had sex with both guys during your fertile period the only way to know is through a DNA test or even if it was very close to this.
Hope I helped
2007-03-26 05:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I comprehend it's best a two day difference, however I understand the place you might be coming from. Probably your midwife has a superiority problematic (like she is the one with education, not you). It's kind of like the ancient nurse/new nurse syndrome, the place they believe they comprehend the whole thing and can go out of their approach to let each person know it. Perhaps you will have to speak to her and let her understand it bothers you and ask her why. She would have a legit cause, like you ovulate differently otherwise you cycle just isn't the typical 28 days. If she can not provide you with a reason, then I propose you go to an additional midwife. In any case, you are trusting this man or woman with you and your toddlers well being, and for those who can't establish open communication early on it may result in extra severe issues later.
2016-08-10 21:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by lacie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You slept w/ 2 men within 24 hours of each other? Either of them could be the father of that baby, your just going to have to wait until the baby is born and have a DNA test.
Additionally, if you didn't want one of those guys to be the father, then you shouldn't have had unprotected sex with him. What's wrong with you anyways? I mean 2 guys in 24 hours... geez, maybe once you realize all the hassle your going to have to go thru especially if the guy you don't want to be the father turns out to be the father, maybe next time you get preg you'll be more careful!
2007-04-01 05:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
An approximation would be the first week in december. My LMP was nov. 16th and I concieved on the 2nd of December. If you had sex with two guys around the first week in December, you'll probably have to wait till baby comes for a DNA test. Best of luck.
2007-03-26 05:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by duckygrl21 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend that's in problem-free words a 2 day huge difference, yet I comprehend the position you're coming from. perhaps your midwife has a superiority complicated (like she is the only with preparation, no longer you). that's type of like the former nurse/new nurse syndrome, the position they imagine they comprehend each little thing and could pass out of their thanks to allow each man or woman comprehend it. perhaps you should refer to her and let her comprehend it bothers you and ask her why. She would have a respectable reason, like you ovulate otherwise or you cycle isn't the conventional 28 days. If she will have the capacity to't provide you with a reason, then I advise you pass to a unique midwife. after all, you're trusting this man or woman with you and your little ones well being, and in case you are able to't set up open verbal change early on it may carry about more suitable severe complications later.
2016-10-17 21:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an early ultrasound, that could tell you more info. And not every woman ovulates at day 14. Mine is a week later than that and ultrasounds have proved that with both of my babies. You can try one of those due date calculators online, you put in your first day of last period, how long your cycle is and it should give you all the info you want to know.
2007-04-03 04:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by JodiMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ovulation occurs on average around the 10-14th days AFTER your period which is when you would've been most likely to conceive. So, November 19th + 10-14 days....who were you with around that time? There's ya baby's daddy.
2007-04-01 09:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by vabeachgirl324 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no way to determine who the father is. The only way you'll know for sure is throught a paternity test. Most likey you slept with 2 different guys in less then 24 hours. Now your paying for the consequences of your illogical mistake.
2007-03-30 06:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by BellaRay 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I really don't think you can figure that out unless, a paternity test, you slept with both and trying to figure out which sperm got there first is like a totally challenge. Just have to wait a lil while then tell both of them.
2007-04-02 06:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by ivette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋