I'm married and have kids.My husband and I work and go 2 school full time .I want to let him know that he is needed and still loved any ideals
2007-03-26 05:02:08 · 23 answers · asked by funnybunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think he should be doing this for you.
Nice dinner, bubble bath, champagne; whoopy. Men all would rather whoopy than anything.
2007-03-26 05:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just do some nice things for him.Get a sitter one night.Without letting him know.Put on some soothing music.Make him a bath with his favorite magazine and some candles and wine.Let him soak and feel good.
While he is in the bath.That is when you put on your sexiest nighty and wait for him.
You could even go to the florist and buy some rose petals.They are not that expensive and leave a trail from the bathroom to the bed.Take the lead and do to him what you know he likes.Never mention why you are doing what you are doing until later when it is done.
When you are all done and you feel like passing out.Tell him how much you love him and appericiate him.Have him hold you until you both pass out.In the morning do it all again and then when you are done.Tell him why you did what you did.
I guarn dam tee you.It will be a night he never forgets,and most likely he will do whatever he has to to keep you happy as long as you keep rewarding him.
Men need to be reminded that they are needed as well.We work hard at keeping the relationship strong just like women.I salute you for taking the step to do this for your man.He must be a really good one.Wish you luck.
2007-03-26 12:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time once in a while - say once a month or so - to go out as a couple and do things you both enjoy. On occasion, it wouldn't hurt to go do something he enjoys that you might not be too fond of if you can do so delightfully. Perhaps even have a sitter watch the kids overnight and go to a hotel every now and again to keep the home fires burning if you can afford that extra luxury (or have a good friend or family member you trust watch them at THEIR house while you two stay in).
2007-03-26 12:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Charity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him what ever he is into no hassle for a few hours once a month. Note this may include you and the kids and it may not, don't whine or give him a guilt trip either way just go with the flow (hey it's only a few hours once a month), also don't make it a locked in date each time so he can't get bored with it. Also you need one hour a day to wind down a DE-stress(you can't make anyone feel happy or loved if your a wreck).
2007-03-26 12:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by wiggliy66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on dates with your husband at least 2 or 3 times a month. Pick a day when neither one of you is working or in school, and neither one of you has a test coming up. Leave the kids with your mom or his mom, and leave the cellphone at home. Then spend a couple of hours together and do what ever it is that you two really enjoy doing. I'm sure he'll appreciate it.
2007-03-26 12:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hire a baby sitter or get a friend to take the kids for the night so you can get some together time.
But don't under-estimate the power of just cuddling and talking to him about how much you appreciate him before you fall asleep for the night. You don't have to do one grand gesture when a 100 small gestures can be more powerful.
2007-03-26 12:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put on make-up for him even if u don't go out. From time to time get rid of the children by sending them to grandparents so u can spend some time together. Don't forget to tell him from time to time how much he means to you. Prepare surprises like a movie he wants to see or a dish he likes. Don't forget to kiss each other every mourning when u wake up. Good luck!
2007-03-26 12:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by marianaadrianaioja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him with your eyes & your touch. Any time you can arrange just time for the two of you will be special, whether it's for bedroom intimacy, or going out to dinner, or to a movie, say it all. Love notes here & there are always a great way to express your feelings. Hallmark may say it well but you can say it better.
2007-03-26 12:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to slow down
otherwise, no time for his needs, then his needs are not met, then he gets mad, drinks more, slacks off on household responsibilities, etc.
maybe stupid to go to school and work and have kids. One thing at a time is better. Maybe just one of you should work. Maybe only take one class. Maybe switch off who works. My wife and I did that some in the past.
Make time for hiw so he knows you love him, mentally and physically.
When my mom went back to school it was very bad, inedible food, etc.
2007-03-26 12:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he going to let you no that your are loved and needed? Women are always the care givers in any relationship. You are working and school also. So why do you need to tuck him nice and cozy all the time.?? Give him lots of B. J.'S, he will like that, most men would..
2007-03-26 12:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just maybe find a sitter, and then the two of you go to the movies or role play in the bedroom, maybe just go out for a nice fancy dinner, but have fun with it, good luck hun
2007-03-26 12:21:38 · answer #11 · answered by Mamma in the making 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋