my husband told his baby mother that i am not going on a family trip with him, beacuse he wanted to get his son to go too, beacuse if the baby mother know am going she will not make his son go, is that right of him to do, why would he lie about me?
2007-03-26 04:59:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ummm, no. If his son's mom finds out that you went along she's never, ever going to make it easy for your DH to get his son again. My guess is that he lied because it makes it easier with his ex right now. But when she finds out the truth it's going to be a lot harder for a lot longer.
2007-03-26 05:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Critter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you feel stabbed in the back but I think, in a way, he had good reason. He wanted his son to go on the trip with you guys and his immature baby momma won't let the son go if she know you were going. Yes, I woulda been pissed that my man lied about me going but I would also understand why he did. You need to tell him that he needs to tell her that you are a part of his life and that she needs to get over it.
2007-03-26 05:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by Moorehowse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has to lie to get his son to go then yes, I think he should. You should want him to have his son with him. It's too bad he has to do that but if his ex is that immature, then he really has no choice. I think you should support your husband when it comes to his visitation with his son.
2007-03-26 05:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't lie about you. You are his wife, not his mistress or anything, so she has no reason to be jeolous unless of course you "stole" him and he divorced her just after she had the baby to be with you, in which case I can understand it's still a sore spot.
In any case I would stay out of it. It IS her baby, after all.
2007-03-26 05:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should not lie to her she is the baby's mother and should know what is going on with her child.its her choice to let the baby go or not and lying to get his way is only going to make it worse when she finds out and she will.
2007-03-26 05:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by patbgone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing quite like Baby Momma Drama.....
2007-03-26 05:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its wrong. I also think its wrong for the mother to be so immature about you going on the trip with her kids. I understand that they are hers and his, but com'on, she's probably still in love with him.
2007-03-26 05:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋