im 18 and i started tlking 2 24yr old female that i got her number from a chat line. she said she was curious and i was 2. we would txt each other mostly all day . we talked on the phone a few times and she sounded nervous. she started telling me she want me to b her 1st and wanted me to come out to NY 2 c her. one day i just decided 2 ask her if she had a boyfriend. she said her babyffather. i knew she had a 2yr old but i didn't know she was with the father still. i thought she was free and single like myself. i confronted her and she was like he knows that she talks to me. i got a little angry and ignored her 4 a few days. then i decided that i really liked her so i cld over look that. so we were talking again and everything was okay until she asked me if i would have a threesome. i said maybe and asked y. she then texted me saying it has always been a fantasy for her and her babyfather. i then got smart and said so now y'all wanna live out some fantasy she said it wasn't a fantasy..
2007-03-26 04:57:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
now and they just want a little companion. i was so caught off gaurd by this because i was tlking 2 her no talk of a three way was ever brought up. i then got smart and said "a companion? is that what it's called? basically saying that i don't do things like that. the last text i sent i just said to her that i see what their trying to do, which is to find someone 2 f u c k with. so i let her have it and i told her i think i shld stick 2 guys because i'm not the one and she shold find someone else to b her first cause i'm all good. i just don't get it then today she txted me saying i was wrong 2 diss her. i told her she was wrong because i liked her not her man and i don't do companionship. finally i just texted her saying "like i said before i'm not the one have a nice life". she just turned me off and i don't c how i'm wrong when she was up 2 something other than what she told me
2007-03-26 04:58:09 · update #1
she wanted me to b her first as in the first female she gets with
2007-03-26 04:58:51 · update #2
you should never speak to this person again. clearly her and her bf are just looking for a person to use as an experiment, and she thought she could use you! her bf was probably going along with it all the time you were talking to her. she probably shared all the details of the texts and your conversations, all the while you didn't know a thing. she isn't looking for a bi-sexual relationship, she just wants someone to test the waters out with, and when she is done, all she'll do is go back with her baby's daddy and you'll be left out in the cold. be smart! don't get involved in a mess like this, especially when there is a child involved!
2007-03-26 05:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank your lucky stars you found out and left before a real problem occured. This is not an honest and reliable approach. They, as a couple, were looking to sucker someone into their web of deceit and confusion. They played on your own gender biases and eventually you got smart....stay that way. There are just too many preditors in many guises on the internet.
2007-03-26 05:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 11:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted a threesome, she should have let you know that from the beginning. Since she withheld that information from you, it makes me wonder what else she had planned for you but didn't yet mention.
Write her off. The whole thing sounds creepy.
2007-03-26 05:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were on your way to being USED, glad you saw the signs and got out. forget her and move on, she didn't share the same feelings you did. What a shame, you seem like you were really into her. O well, don't give up, your special someone is out there waitng for you, until you find them, keep focus, and Good Luck!!!
2007-03-26 08:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by MS.MOCHA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were totally right to tell her to hit the curb! She was using u...how cruel...She should've told you her intentions from the first, not string you along and then be like..oh, yeah, my bf will want you too. How stupid is she? If she is wanting a 3some, she's going to have to learn to go about it in the right way!! I'd never speak to her shady a** again.
2007-03-26 06:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by SweetGin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she was doing was really her and her bf hunting for a girl for their fantasy. A lot of people do it. Me and my boyfriend a threesome with our friend. It was awesome I might add! But I would not suggest going for this. It's someone you don't know wanting you to travel to another state to sleep with them. For all you know it's really just some crazy rapist. Just forget about her.
2007-03-26 05:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You got played girl, you were right for cutting them loose, you should try and be a little less trusting and a lot more careful in the future.
2007-03-30 23:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by kissaled 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think whats is going on is she try to turn you out.You go see her in you find out that her baby father is really her pimp.I think she one of those female were you give her oral sex but she don't return the favorite.My friend had met this girl one day.So I left in went home.The next day I went to get my friend for school.My friend told me she gave the girl oral sex but the girl wouldn't give her oral sex and the had a baby.Meaning the girl used my friend for oral sex.
2007-03-31 07:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by La Tania W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, babe, you're not wrong!! You're "straight up"--she was the one who's wrong.
If she and her man wanted a threesome, she should have said
that at the very beginning. EVERY relationship must begin
with honesty, respect, and trust. If any one of those elements
is missing, don't enter that relationship. (..of course, love is in
that equation, too..)
I say again, No babe, you're NOT wrong!! OK??
2007-03-26 05:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋