Have you ever cheated, where you married?
Have you ever had a crush or thought about cheating, how did you get over it?
2007-03-26 04:53:18 · 7 answers · asked by bridetobebrandie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Will never cheat on wife (married 3 yrs), but cheated on g-friends. All out of my system now
2007-03-26 05:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noticed your screen name is "Bride to be....". If you're getting married and are thinking of cheating or have a crush, YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE. This doesn't make you a bad person...it just means you're not ready for a commitment.
To answer your question.......yes, I've cheated and have been cheated on. Of course it's wrong, but we're sexual creatures. Sometimes sexual desires are hard to control. I still get crushes too, but I don't act upon them. I just swoon over the guy secretly. To get over it.......I imagine how I would feel about this "crush" if I were single. Most of the time, I realize that the attraction is only there because I CAN'T have this person.
Good luck to you.......
2007-03-26 12:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ronnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated. If you don't have the balls to break up with your significant other in order to pursue other things then you need to get a reality check. Obviously the person you are cheating ON is not "the one" because if he/she were, you woudln't want to cheat. And if they are not "the one" then why lie? I'm not a fan of liars and I have more pride than that.
No one's ever cheated on me. I've always put it out there at the beginning that cheating isn't an option, if you want someone else, just tell me. Honesty works.
2007-03-26 12:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kristy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! NEVER EVER CHEATED, Never been married either,
I've had a crsuh or two before, but things just seem to go their course and work out so i can't complain
2007-03-26 12:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sire_D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've never thought about cheating, but it's a very wrong thing to do. if you love the person your with you should respect them by not cheating!! it's sick and wrong and should be against the law!!!
2007-03-26 11:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to admit it....but yes years back I cheated on my wife back then...she had no clue....but I felt soooo guilty, I confessed to her. She divorced me but I knew she had every right to and knew that when I confessed she might.....It was by far the most stupid thing I could have done and was soooo unhappy...not a good idea!!!
2007-03-26 12:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mike N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well crushes are crushes and usually dont end up being all what you think in might be..then you have compromised your marriage and you can never get that trust completely back again..focus on your significant other..and stay away from the crush..believe me its very destructive..
2007-03-26 12:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by wartytoadjody39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋